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What's your idea of the perfect day?

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samjamsam · 27/08/2020 07:39

I need inspiration please for a "perfect" day, what would yours be? I feel so boring - at the moment all I have written down is Danish pastry and a massage Grin

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Pelleas · 27/08/2020 07:46

Mine would involve going on a day-trip somewhere interesting or scenic and (not that I would do this just at the moment because I am Covid-paranoid) going out for a meal with family in the evening. I'd get a book that's on my books-I'm-desperate-to-read list and have it with me all day so that I could dip in and out of it. I'd put fresh bedding on my bed first thing (my favourite, best quality set) so at the end of the day I could sink into a lovely comfortable bed.

HMSSophie · 27/08/2020 07:47

A long, deep talk with someone I love and who loves me. Meandering, with laughter and eye contact, but a meaningful connection exploring something vital and mind-expanding. Then yes to Danish pastries and coffee!
Then a long walk in warm sunshine. And a pub lunch with friends. Then a nap. And a perfect bath, then a funny well made film, or if I can ask for anything then I'd like to watch Lord of the Rings as if I was seeing it for the first time. Then into bed clean sheets of course.

Manolin · 27/08/2020 08:49

Rising at 4am to catch the dawn. Reclining in a chair outside, a cup of tea watching the sun rise, feeling that first bright light on my face, breathing deeply as I do, listening to the birds signing. Jumping in the car, heading down for a coastal walk and a jog to stretch the muscles and open the lungs. Kicking my boots off, shorts off, then wading or even swimming in the sea. It is usually still warm throughout the Autumn. Back into the town to seek out our favourite grocer to buy local produce and a good bottle of organic French wine. Home to make a lunch and sit lazily in the kitchen with the fire lit, chatting about not much on the face of it, yet really important things underneath, enjoying a long, slow lunch of crisp apple, herby salad, some untried cheese and medley of vegetables, taking two, maybe three hours to tarry due to good conversation. Then a sleep, entwined, drifting off lightly, still capturing those sounds of life going on, but without us; a swift screaming, the faint drone of an aircraft's propellers some several thousand feet away, the hollow sound of a hammer knocking a rail back onto a wooden post on some distant farm. Knowing that the only thing that matters is taking this time. Knowing that all we really have is the present. Knowing that is enough. Lighting candles, allowing the evening and night to elongate before us, pushing the day as long as we can, going almost full circle to midnight, gazing at stars, knowing that this can go on an on. Just stopping and slowing down really.

SayrraT · 31/08/2020 07:09

Starting the day off with a coffee in the garden with my OH, maybe with a Danish pastry too!

Then after reading my book for a while some pole dance/fitness (in a perfect day I'd achieve some moves I've been working on Grin). After that some lunch maybe? Then head to the yard to ride my horses - either some dressage schooling or a nice hack with a friend.

Back home for some dinner (maybe dinner out to our favourite restaurant with friends or family we've not seen for a while) then back home, fire lit and snuggled under some blankets watching a movie/chatting until its time to go to bed.

SandysMam · 31/08/2020 07:16

Wow @Manolin if you’re not already a writer, you should be!!! That was epic, far more civilised than my perfect day (fry up followed by 50 episodes of the real housewives of Cheshire Grin).

Crylittlesister · 31/08/2020 07:19

Mine would require a bit of time travel. I'd wake up in Greece and have breakfast overlooking the sea with that incredible blue sky. I'd spend a warm morning lying by a pool with a good book and peace and quiet.
I'd then magically be in Paris, where I would go for coffee then spend the afternoon wandering around or visiting something arty.
About 5 I'd head to London for cocktails, dinner in my favourite restaurant then a gig.
I'd stay over in a hotel because lovely hotels with massive beds and clean white sheets and great breakfasts make me really happy.

WouldBeGood · 31/08/2020 07:25

Wake up in a city and go for a leisurely coffee and people watch. Wander round, looking up at all the stuff you never look at normally. Walk miles without noticing, stop for a lunch outdoors, with a beer. Go to a gallery, have a whippy ice cream in a bustling park. Walk more. Go for cocktails and a boozy dinner and listen to some live music before bed.

Kittykatmacbill · 31/08/2020 15:40

Nice long run somewhere beautiful, opportunity to sit in the sun and drink an iced coffee afterward, a nice explore of interesting with non grumpy children - a stop in playpark with ice creams and a nice meal Everyone eats prepared and washed up by someone else. Then once the kids are in bed, wine and movie.

lazylinguist · 31/08/2020 15:46

Getting up on a sunny morning before everyone else and knitting with a leisurely cup of tea. A family dog walk somewhere lovely, followed by a pub lunch. Or a family trip to a local lake for some wild swimming and kayaking and a picnic. Back for a cup of tea and a board game, then a favourite film in the evening.

Inthe60s · 31/08/2020 15:53

A day where I don't have to work the following day. No kids. Someplace nice and warm with a swimming pool. Simple breakfast, long long long walk in the morning with a stop for coffee. Back to accommodation for a quick swim, light lunch and reading for all the afternoon in the shade with two chilled white wines. 15-20 mins sex (if DH is there, if not a wank) before getting ready to go out for nice dinner with another two glasses of wine. Back to accommodation, read/sleep/relax knowing I don't have to get up early in the morning.

iklboo · 31/08/2020 16:03

Lie in (but not too late)
Walk into town for a mooch around the charity shops
Lunch or coffee and cake
Pick up something nice for tea and a bottle of wine
Get home to find the bed had been changed with fresh bedding (OK, I'm straying into fantasy here)
Cook & eat tea
Hot shower, clean pjs
Into bed with a good book, music, candle and wine
Good night's sleep

Doje · 31/08/2020 16:15

Oooh, I had one of these recently!

Lie in, then breakfast of choice. An hour or so in front of crap telly then a long ish run. This is mainly to negate all the crap I'll eat during the day. Home, shower, lunch - eggs royale. Then a long walk with a friend, ending in a glass of wine. Then dinner out to my face restaurant with the husband.

Doje · 31/08/2020 16:16

* fave * restaurant

edwinbear · 31/08/2020 16:44

I'd be in the Maldives, lazy morning sex with lots of kissing and eye contact. Nap afterwards, followed by a hotel buffet breakfast. Off scuba diving for the rest of the morning, followed by an afternoon by the pool. Slow wander back to the room, stopping for a shag in the sea.

Afternoon nap, more sex, shower, dressed for dinner (without my hair going frizzy), slow walk along the beach to the bar in time for cocktails as the sun goes down. Dinner, few more drinks, then back to the room for slightly drunken sex.

Does it show I'm not getting laid enough at the moment? Grin

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