I moved next door to the noisiest neighbours I’ve ever come across. Every day without fail their tv will be on maximum volume, followed by music at maximum volume, their 3 chihuahuas yapping all day and night and ending the day with a full blown fight including smashed glass against the walls and slamming doors.
I’ve been here for 2 years and I can’t cope with it anymore. The only time I get a break is when we go out but it’s not reasonable to be out of our own home all day every day. I’m 5 months pregnant and desperately want a home birth but I know it will be stress filled and traumatic having to listen to them during the labour and ruining my memories.
I haven’t admitted it to anyone else but I’m terrified of them, I worry if I ask them to be quiet they will turn on me and make my life hell or threaten me. They are friends with all the neighbours on the road (who are similar in their ways) so I have no one to back me.
I can’t afford to move out and even if I could there isn’t anywhere to go, I would have to uproot my dc from school as I don’t drive and change our lives because of these people.
Right now they are having a barbecue in the front garden with loud music and hammering with screaming and swearing. I feel like they do it on purpose as they must know it bothers me, as they do something else if I go into my garden or come home. I haven’t had a full nights sleep since I moved here and I feel depressed and unhappy all the time.
Short of reporting them and facing the consequences of threats I’m not sure what to do. Can anyone advise please?