My elderly parents (77 & 84j have taken the responsibility to look out for my great aunt (94) who has dementia. Unfortunately she is too far gone for POA but my father has some sort of signatory of her building society passbook. She is physically very fit (fitter than them] and goes out for walks every day sometimes twice a day. They do her shopping, washing, take her for medical appointments, hairdresser, chiropodist etc. She can’t look after herself in any way. She has carers come in three times a day to give her tablets. They feel obliged to because she has no children or anyone else to do it. But it is taking its toll on them the constant phone calls and worry is making them look dreadful. Social services have said there is nothing they can do if she doesn’t want to go to a home (which is what she needs) as it’s her personal choice to stay where she is. She loses everything, goes for long walks, gets in strangers cars and is getting aggressive with them. Yesterday she put her hands around my mum’s throat. What can I do I hate seeing them suffering like this 😔