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In shock. Unexpected pregnancy!!! Don’t know what to do

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Surprisedlai · 22/08/2020 14:38

I am posting here as I’ve just spent most of the day reading threads on here and they’ve been such a help but I felt like I needed to make my own so I can write down my mixed emotions and hopefully get some specific advice!

I’m 26 and in a ltr with my partner but we don’t live together yet, we’re very happy. We recently slept together and got carried away so I took the pill the next day (And please be kind, I know we were stupid) but I thought all was well. It wasn’t until yesterday after feeling so much tireder than normal that I realised I was late. Ordered a pack of 3 pregnancy tests which came this morning (the first time I’ve ever taken them!) and thought I’d just be taking them as a formality but all three came back positive. I’m literally stunned and in shock. Was hoping for a family one day but this feels so soon, finally in a job that I love and feel like my boyfriend won’t be happy with the news and know what he’ll say. Was supposed to meet him for lunch but I cancelled. But I’m also so happy and feel so emotional and strangely excited! I have literally no idea what I should be doing right now. Who do I talk to or what should I be doing? My minds all over the place!

OP posts:
willowmelangell · 22/08/2020 20:58

Congratulations!

Seems like your secret wish came trueGrin Very exciting.
I hope all goes well for youFlowers

ScrapThatThen · 23/08/2020 15:39

You need to talk to him. Think it through individually and together. It will give you a lot of information about your relationship and whether it has a future. It's ok for you to decide.

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