Right, I'm still awake and it's for completely ridiculous reasons!!

[MaureenMLove]

Possibly some will know me, I've been around for many, many years. Not many, however will know that I am now separated. I don't generally air my dirty laundry and all that!

I've been in this position for almost 2 years now and suddenly and with very short notice, my dear friend (I call her that, I might hate her after tomorrow! ) has set me up with someone!

I've been chatting to him on text for most of the evening. I realise it is now 1.40am, so realistically it was between 8pm and 11pm. We are meeting for a stroll round the local park, which is between mine and his house, at midday tomorrow,

I can't fucking sleep! What's the matter with me??? I'm 52 years old for gods sake. I don't know what I'm going to wear. And what if it's raining? And as I am that old, unless I get some sleep, my eyes won't have had enough time to stop being puffy or creased and I'll have a headache. And despite the fact that it's nearly 2am, I'll still be awake at the crack of sparrow shit, because I am menopausal, and, and, and...

Why am I putting myself through this?

Hey it's just a stroll in the park. With a person. That is all. Now chill out and play a "get to sleep" track from an Ap or YT.

52 isn't THAT old. I'm 52 so I know

There must be a reason your friend thought you'd be compatible - you'll be fine. If it's raining you'll get wet!!

I'm awake with the weight of the world on my shoulders. And even more awake cos a huge, and I mean huge, spider just came running towards me on my bed.

Aww Maureen, I remember you!

How exciting! Now go to bed and tell us EVERYTHING tomorrow.

It’s excitement means you are looking forward to it, just enjoy

52 is not old! Go and enjoy yourself, you never know! Also, report back after your walk

That’s really exciting. I remember not being able to sleep when I met (my now) husband. For weeks that we were dating, I just had knots in my tummy.

I bet it’ll be brilliant. A stroll round the park, even in the rain, can be beautiful. Fresh air, umbrella and lots of talking. What can go wrong?!

I’m awake because my house is empty for the first time in ages. DH and DC are with family members and I’ve had to work and stay behind. I just cannot sleep; not even tired. It’s eerie not having someone next to me!

You're absolutely right of course, 52 is not old. It's just all new and I never envisaged having to, or wanting to, do this again!

I'm going to read my book and hopefully fall asleep. I can't usually read more than a page!

I opened the curtains this morning and found 2 spiders just hanging around on their webs! Think they're still there. They don't bother me!

The park is literally across the road from both of us. Him on one side and me on the other. He seems like a nice fella on text. We'll see how it goes!

52 is not old at all! I'm 54 so I do know! Do you honestly think that your friend would set you up with any old bloke?! You've been texting with him for hours! I think the reason you cannot sleep is excitement with a dash of nerves. Take a pain killer or dab a tiny touch of cologne or tigers balm on your temples if you do have a headache. Loads of cold water splashed on your face to reduce puffiness.

Go and have a lovely time tomorrow, and let us know how things went....

I'm awake because I fell asleep earlier & DH woke me when he came to bed.
He's fast asleep and I'm on here... 🤨

You're anticipatory OP, that's why you're awake.
I hope all goes well tomorrow, now try & sleep!!

I'm awake again. Fitbit registered 3 and a bit hours. It's going to be a long day. You are all right. To quote a classic from the last time I was dating back in the 80's, 'it's just a walk in the park!'

I might drop off for a bit longer. I need wash my hair again. I went swimming yesterday and I can still smell chlorine. We'll see. I could search through his Facebook? Not stalker like. I accepted him as a friend whilst we were chatting, so it's legit! .

I'll let you know how it goes!

Good luck MaureenMLove and enjoy. I'm excited for you!

Things I have learnt in the last 3 hours.

1. I don't need to be set up with anyone
2. my friends might like him, but they don't have to go out with him
3. I don't need someone in my life with drama surrounding them
4. I just want someone to say, 'shall we have a fish supper in front of the telly tonight?

Oh well. You live and learn! Funny how texting can make you a completely different person!

so ...... he's not your cuppa tea Maureen?

So not my cup of tea!! . It filled a couple of hours though and taught me something about myself. I am strong, confident and don't need a man right now!

Plenty more fish in the chip shop then!
Just a matter of the right plaice, and after all, it cod get better.

Ah well at least you went on the date and discovered he wasn't the man for you.

I agree that texts can be very deceiving.
Even when you really really know people too!

Plenty more fish in the chip shop then!
Just a matter of the right plaice, and after all, it cod get better.

Nice!

Sorry.to hear it didn't work for you, Maureen..you sound happy & confident and that's what matters.

@FawnDrench - hilarious! I'm sure Eel find the right person one day, but it's not me!

Yeah, I'm OK. I've decided that online and set ups are not for me. It needs to be organic (before it's orgasmic)

A chance meeting across the meat counter in Asda or in a social setting. Although, that has its own problems these days. His eyes might be lovely, but under that mask, he might not have any teeth!

I am strong, confident and don't need a man right now!
Absolutely the very best place to be!!