What would be a nice gesture for friend in these circumstances?

[Bluemooninmyeyes1]

My friend’s husband has recently became unemployed and she’s been messaging me about how worried they are about money and the future. I want to do something nice for her but I don’t know what. I’m not really in the position to give her money as we’re struggling ourselves. I thought about putting a little food parcel together but then I thought it might look a bit patronising? Also things like flowers, chocolates etc are the last thing she needs. Any other ideas or do you think it’s best just to leave it? I wanted to do something nice as she’s been a good friend over the years.

Can you offer to cook for them for a couple of meals a week?

Vouchers for the supermarket she shops at?

Or offer to take her children out for the day-if she has any. To let them join you on your family days out, so kids are still able to do things and she doesn't feel that they would miss out ?

What about some big Shepard's Pie type things to chuck in the freezer as a wee stock up. Some nice stews or something? I'd probably appreciate that!

Taking the kids out for a treat is a good idea.

If that’s too much money then what about something to pop in the freezer? A lasagne?

When my DH was made redundant my bestie came over with some red wine, steaks and cooked us all a slap up meal. It was really nice.

Taking the kids out is a good idea, especially if they don't have much family support it maybe a chance to have grown up conversations about their situation without being distracted by or frightening the kids

Sometimes being a good listener is the best thing to be . I’d maybe offer to have the children for a day but mostly I’d just be available to listen and talk . Personally if I’m worried about anything and I’m sharing those worries with friends I’m not looking for them to solve my problems or help with them but more to be a sympathetic ear .

If Covid 19 restrictions permit, I think taking the children out for a day is the best idea.