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Am I being unreasonable????

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MB64 · 14/08/2020 13:44

My 17 year old daughter has told me that my partner has got to leave as she is scared of him and cannot move in with her boyfriend for another year so he must go. She refuses to talk to him or be in the same room as him this has gone on since just after her birthday during lockdown, I am now piggy in the middle and I am at my wits end. The reason she says she is scared of him is because he has told her on 4 occasions ( over the last 3 years ) to stop swearing at me and treat me with some respect. Then when she removed a painting she had done for him and destroyed it heard him "sound off" to me. My partner is a "Friday night gamer" on line with his best mate and sometimes things can get a bit noisy, my daughter says she finds this aggressive? He has offered to stop gaming or move out to the office, but my daughter does not want him to do this. I have said to her that I do not think this warrant him being thrown out, but now I am being accused of being a bad mum who doesn't care - any advice welcome .....

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exaltedwombat · 10/06/2021 18:05

Many of you are disturbingly ready to find the man guilty.

ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba · 10/06/2021 18:21

he could easily be smooth as silk in front of you and a bully out of sight.

side with your kid. that's your job

Howshouldibehave · 10/06/2021 18:27

@exaltedwombat

Many of you are disturbingly ready to find the man guilty.
Why have you resurrected such an old thread?
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