I don't trust the school so I don't know if my
is over-reacting.
DS has ASD, dyspraxia, maybe adhd and is very socially behind his peers. He is desperate to have friends, no one wants to be friends with him. So when they were playing on a climbing frame during a PE lesson and a group of kids told him to jump down, he did. And hurt himself. It seems two of the sportier kids also jumped and did not hurt themselves. Of course DS was then upset as he was hurt and it didn't do anything towards making them friends with him...
Now we have the issue of school swimming lessons. 26 9-10 year olds will be going to the pool in the next town. There will be a proper swimming teacher and the class teacher (B).
DS cannot swim. He loves playing in the water, not afraid whatsoever, but does not have enough coordination to swim. I do not take both my Dc in the water alone as DS needs all my support (quite literally). He also panics when he is out of his depth.
His Ta will not be there are she is teaching in another class when they will go. I've asked what depth the pool will be but no one can tell me. There is a genuine reason for this as it's just been renovated and none of the teachers have been there yet.
The "head" class teacher A has just emailed me to say that DS should go along and decide with B and the swim teacher which parts he can join in with and where he should stay in the pool. She has also said that as B is there in a supervisory capacity he can keep a close eye on DS.
My initial reaction is along the lines of WTF but as I said, my opinion of the school is currently not the highest it's ever been.