Bit of background... I eat a mostly healthy diet and am trying to stay a healthy weight which I'm finding harder since peri MP. I feel that DH try's to wind me up on purpose. He knows I try to limit processed foods and sweet stuff but has just asked me if I want tinned soup for lunch which I don't eat, or rarely eat. So I said yes that sounds lovely. Few minutes later he asked if I wanted crisps with that and I said no thanks you get some if you want some. Then he said do you want some chocolate. I said no thanks you get some and he proceeded to start saying "why are you getting so annoyed" I'm only asking if you want anything.... I said I'm not annoyed I just said you get some if you want some... he kept insisting I was annoyed and stressed and I should calm down but it was him who was acting annoyed. Honestly I feel like he's always saying things to get me to react. I'm really trying to watch my reactions just to see if he is doing what I think he's doing. I know this sounds ridiculous and petty but I often seem stressed and it's usually something he's said to wind me up out of the blue. I really feel like he's doing it on purpose. This is just an example of what I mean and could easily apply to lots of other situations.