I have been married 20 years Husband is 60 this year I'm 45. The age gap never bothered me before.
Hubby has suddenly got the can't be bothered attitude with everything and feels old so I feel things have got boring. He won't do weekends away or meals out. He can't get and keep an erection so sex has stopped he won't try using Viagra makes excuses not to try it. If I try to instigate sex he pushes me away showns no affection at all to me I'm feeling unloved depressed and worthless. He says he will try and change but never does. I'm feeling so alone If I walk out where will I go? If I stay I trapped. Can anyone offer advice. Kids are all grown up 2 still live at home.