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Its not ok to hit back.

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Noidea2114 · 18/07/2020 21:16

My younger brother has been having a few problems with his girlfriend who he lives with. Her daughter also lives with them.
It's his house and he pays all the bills. Girlfriend doesn't work.
Last night he went to the pub with my older brother who has come to visit my mum. He had a couple of pints.
When he got home for some reason he put his video on his phone he said because he was aware of the reaction from gf and daughter.
He wasn't drunk but on the video his GF was shouting your drunk get out(it's his house) the daughter started having a go at my brother
he told her it's between him and GF so keep out the next thing she was attacking him. Thank goodness he didn't hit back.
He ended up phoning the police as she got a pan and hit him on the side of his head and shoulder. He now has slight concussion.
Black and blue shoulder. The gf was egging her on. Before the police came they smashed up the living room.
My DB is ex army and is a black belt in karate and is a very laid back person.
The police came and removed the pair from the house as they thought it was dangerous for them to stay.

What has really pissed me off is the ex gf has phoned my mum (84) and told her that dB is going to prison for what he's done.
My mum is very vunerable in her mind and now is frightened.
What happens between them in their private life is up to them but to involve my mum is disgusting.

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JudithGrimesHat · 18/07/2020 21:18

Unbelievable!

Noidea2114 · 18/07/2020 21:44

dB has at last changed the locks. What has been posted on FB is disgusting.
Girlfriend phoned me today to say my dB is a b***d and has phoned our older brother to say the same.
Mum is distraught. It's very difficult to keep quiet on this matter.
Neither the gf or daughter think they have done wrong.
Charges are being pressed by the police.

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AuntieDolly · 18/07/2020 21:49

Who's being charged? The women? How are they contacting your mother?

AuntieDolly · 18/07/2020 21:49

Who's being charged? The women? How are they contacting your mother?

Noidea2114 · 18/07/2020 22:25

By phone. I'm not allowed to contact them to leave my mother out of it.
Don't know where they have gone. I've spoken to the police and I'm to note down everything that is happening.
dB, my older brother and myself are more concerned about the effect it will be on DM.
Younger dB is in shock that it's come to this. He has been with gf for over 10 years.

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heynori · 18/07/2020 22:28

How old is the daughter?!

Noidea2114 · 18/07/2020 22:33
  1. She works in some capacity with the police. Not an officer.
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notapizzaeater · 18/07/2020 22:45

Surely is it's been videoed the police will press charges against the daughter ?

Noidea2114 · 19/07/2020 10:31

Charges are being pressed.

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LillianBland · 19/07/2020 11:00

If the details are as you say, then you might be better having this taken down, in case someone knows them and tells them about it. You won’t want them using it against your brother.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 19/07/2020 12:37

@LillianBland. What are they going to use against him. He was the one who was attacked. He’s the innocent party.
Have I missed something. Confused

LillianBland · 19/07/2020 13:01

Sorry, I should have been clearer, but I’m concerned that the OP, may say something that could affect a potential court case, if she’s not careful. Are the women aware that there is a recording and is her brother happy for her to discuss the potential court case online? She would be best helping her mum by discussing the phone calls with the police, with her mum’s blessing, of course.

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