This happened on Tuesday but is bothering me. A friend who I used to be very close to, not so much now but still speak often etc, text me on Tuesday - general chit chat, how am I, what am I up to, how's the kids blablabla, we were messaging back and forth for about 20mins instant replies to each other. Then they asked for a favour - if I could lend them £30 until Saturday. I said of course, I know they would help me out and whenever I've lent them money before they always pay it back so not a problem.
I send the money over and hear nothing, ask if they got it in the end and they reply an hour later saying yes, thanks. They then ask what I'm cooking for dinner and when I'm off furlough etc, so I answer and my messages needed replies and I don't hear from them until 10am the next day.
They just picked up the conversation without even acknowledging the time gap.
I reply telling them that I thought they were a bit rude, making small talk with me to ask for a favour then as soon as they get it they disappear mid convo.
They then told me that they were busy yesterday and I obviously woke up looking to start an issue with them because they'd done nothing wrong. They said that I am too much for bringing it up when it wasn't like that but its fine , it's no biggie to them. They said I'm acting like they didn't say thank you when they did.
I ended it by saying that I'm not tolerating them turning it around on me, if they can't see the issue then thats on them and that they don't get to decide whether it was a "biggie" as they were the one in the wrong.
What do you make of this? Who was right? I say me but open to others views.
Its made me question myself and I feel uncomfortable with it.