@Badmemorieshouse I am a hoarder by instinct and have always had a lot of stuff. However, especially in the wake of my Ex leaving and having 4 Children under 9, going back to work FT, various court cases as he stopped paying the mortgage, challenged CMS, etc. etc. the house got out of control. It was horrid, I admitted to it. However, my Children were still clean and fed, high achievers, personable, engaged, etc. SWs became involved. My ExH had left lots of DiY undone, which didn't help.
At first, they focused on the house but then on more nebulous things, like my mental health. Hoarding is often related to loss, and I had had a Stillbirth. The second set escalated from CiN to CPP, even though there had been substantial progress in the house since the date involvement started. Even now, the Children remained with me in the house as I worked on it, nothing was said at the ICPC about removing them and I have met all the targets I had to from it in the correct time.
I had flagged-up only six weeks or so in that there were communication problems with the second set and, at the ICPC, asked for different ones, which wasn't granted. They seemed to take my ExH at his own estimation and, at things like Core Meetings, shut me down when I tried to raise things.
Then, just as lockdown started, my ExH retained them after routine contact, according to his second ExH, at the instigation of the SW.
He left me for someone else and has been pretty uninvolved over the last four years, mucking around with contact, money (even with CMS), prioritising his Step Daughter ... now, suddenly, he wants them to move City and Schools.
Also, my 13 year old has gone from merely being an awkward Teen to rejecting me, refusing contact, being horrible, saying, unchecked, how I have been a complete failure as a Parent. Again, I have been engaged in things like parenting courses, admitting that there is always stuff to learn and when I had reacted to her lashing out by lashing back, it hadn't been appropriate but, again, this had been known about by the SWs, and they had still been left with me.
As I said, I haven't had the report but, as far as I can tell, the SWs haven't spoken to people like School and never to me about their context and support systems here, that sort of thing.
For over four years, I feel I carried all this alone, and worked hard for my Children, even if I didn't get it all right, with my ExH actively making things harder and now, it is only what I failed at that is being noted and he is being seen as a hero.