Dh has got a new job and we have to relocate.
The dc are as a majority fine with this. Quite adaptable except dd (10)
She is devastated and doesn’t want to leave the area, her school, her friends
She has some MH and other issues which mean it could seriously affect her but we can’t see any way round this we have to either do what’s best for the majority or for just one.
It’s too far away that she could stay where she is at school. We can’t split the family up but she is that unwell that the repercussions could be terrible.
I honestly feel so bad. I don’t know what to do.
Dh needs this job. We need the money it will bring we need the move and it is the right thing for everyone else but how do you manage something like this as I’m worried it will really damage dd
She’s not very adaptable and I’m feeling quite upset. It’s always been the case that we just do what’s right for everyone yet this time it’s not possible what am I meant to do hope for the best and try to support her through it.
I feel very guilty