moving away

[viv78]

Hi i am a divorcee with 2 grown up children. I have a 2.5 year old grandaughter who we see 2 times a week.
I am seriously considering moving out of my local area to thirty miles away back where im originally from due to domestic and verbal abuse from ex husband. even though i divorced him , he seems to think its ok for him to come round to my house whenever he wants and acts as if nothing has changed. ive tried talking to him about it but he just ignores me.i suffer from depression due to this and past experiences and i know the only way to get away from him is to move away. but AIBU for wanting to leave and move away from grandaughter and grown up children for my own happiness and sanity?

What would make you most happy? If it's moving away and starting again then do it, but do it for you, not because of him.

But if staying where you are will make you happy, then you need to work on a way to send your ex packing for good. Don't let him be a barrier to your happiness, sounds like he's put you through enough as it is.