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The tiger who came to tea

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namechangedyetagain · 29/06/2020 10:28

I know it's a classic, but just what is it actually about? I always thought it reflected on the Nazis looking for the author's father but DH thinks I'm bonkers. So what is it then?

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Onekidnoclue · 29/06/2020 10:30

Oh crap. I thought it was about a hungry tiger.... am now questioning everything Confused

00100001 · 29/06/2020 10:30

It is bizarre

eggofmantumbi · 29/06/2020 10:31

Judith Kerr categorically said it wasn't Nazis in an interview I read

Seeline · 29/06/2020 10:32

I'm sure it's about a hungry tiger too!

I think the author denied any other interpretations, but am probably wrong there.

It was one of my favourites as a child, and both my DC loved it when they were little too. It was known as Tiger Tea in our house.

tiktok · 29/06/2020 10:33

Judith Kerr answered this many times in her life. Nothing to do with the Nazis. Everything thing to do with a hungry tiger who came to tea :)

It's a trip into a child's imagination, where extraordinary things can happen that look scary but turn out to be just extraordinary.

Drawings and story work beautifully together.

That's why it's a classic.

00100001 · 29/06/2020 10:33

However, evidence suggests that the late author, who died in May aged 95, did not share these lofty interpretations.

“I remember asking Judith Kerr if the tiger symbolised the 1960s sexual revolution, where normal mores and suburban life became upended by this wild and exotic creature,” recalls newsreader Emily Maitlis. “She told me ‘no’, it was about a tiger coming to tea.”

mummabubs · 29/06/2020 10:34

My sister in law studied English lit at uni and apparently they were told the tiger represents the threat that "the other woman" brings to a marriage, coming into the house and destroying everything and then leaving chaos and destruction when they leave!?!?!

(To me it will always just be a lovely story about a large and ravenous feline!)

WisestIsShe · 29/06/2020 10:35

It always sounded like it was about a neglected child and and alcoholic mother to me.

Mamette · 29/06/2020 10:35

I thought it was about the mum not having done any shopping or cooking so that no dinner was ready when the dad came home.

CMOTDibbler · 29/06/2020 10:36

Judith Kerr always said it was just about a Tiger, and as she wrote so honestly about things in the 'When Hitler stole Pink Rabbit' and subsequent books I think I totally believe that.
My favourite book of all time, and when I was little, there was a total glamour about the thought of going out to a cafe for tea as we never ate out until I was a teenager

RubaiyatOfAnyone · 29/06/2020 10:36
Grin
The tiger who came to tea
bookmum08 · 29/06/2020 10:47

It started life as a bedtime story for her children. It gets more daft because that is what happens when you are making up a story as you are going alone.
It's not about the Nazis.

Witchend · 29/06/2020 10:53

Why on earth would it be about the Nazis?

The tiger is portrayed as a cuddly visitor they want to come back. They even buy food for it if it comes back.

I 'm sure the Nazis would have liked to think they were seen like that, but I am certain JK, especially JK, would not have portrayed them as such.

Frazzled2207 · 29/06/2020 10:55

Never got the nazi connection. It is very old fashioned though in that mum is slaving away in the kitchen making tea for dad when he comes home from work.

totallyyesno · 29/06/2020 10:57

I agree with pp - I have always read it as an alcoholic mum!

Bioprepper · 29/06/2020 11:01

This story is about sophies mother who cant be arsed cooking daddys tea after a day of listening to sophie going on about whos kicked who at school and how her project should have won the best medal award.

There is no gin in the house to get blathered so she makes up a story about a tiger who has eaten everything so daddy has to take them to the cafe. He never bloody takes her anywhere to wear her new coat so the least he can do is cough up for bangers and mash.

The plan works and the sap falls for everything she says. Mummy is so shocked and happy she even lets Sophie go to the cafe in her nightie because she cant be arsed with the moaning. She knows shell never get away with this again so the tiger never makes another appearance.

The end

SusieFlo · 29/06/2020 11:01

My other half (tongue in cheek) reckons the mum's an alcoholic and she encourages the tiger 'role play' thing with the kid to explain why there's nothing for dinner ...and the dad's face when they are in the cafe eating sausages says it all. (tygertale.files.wordpress.com/2015/06/tiger2.jpg)

Ever since he said that I can't unsee it!

thatsnotgoingtowork · 29/06/2020 11:04

mummabubs When you study English literature at university level you should never be told that a work "means" XYZ - it's all up for debate! Even at A level students are introduced to the idea that there are multiple interpretations of any given text.

By the fist year of an undergraduate degree at the very latest (really by the second year of A level) students should be very much aware that the question of whether authorial intent matters is one of the endless rumbling debates, with most literary theoriest arguing that the text stands alone and authorial intent is not definitive (so it doesn't necessarily matter what the author says it's about, it's about whatever you can convincingly argue it's about... or it isn't...)

There are lots of schools of literary criticism, most of which overlap with psychology or other social sciences.

Obviously most of it is bollocks, but quite fun.

Nobody who has managed to graduate with a decent degree in English literature should ever come out with the phrase "we were told the book is about X " though. The entire point of the degree is to read 97 different critical standpoints and write essays arguing the validity of one over another, just for fun.

The way to get a first, by the way, is to argue convincingly that absolutely everything ever written is about sex, religion and death. Especially works that appear not to be about those things at all.

Pogmella · 29/06/2020 11:05

@RubiayatOfAnyone I always change the words on that page. She says something like ‘What time do you call this- don’t even take your shoes off I’ve had a rubbish day, we’re all going out and dinner is on you!’

ChristmasCarcass · 29/06/2020 11:07

DH thinks it’s about the collapse of the British Empire and white people’s guilt/fear towards their colonies. Tiger, you see? Indians. Immigrating/coming round our house and consuming everything we own/stole from them.

Or it could be a child’s imaginary tea party with a tiger. There’s a cat in the pavement when they go out in the dark who looks very similar.

I like the mum in it. She seems like a lot of fun to play with. It’s one of DS’s favourites.

Seahawk80 · 29/06/2020 11:10

I've always hated that the tiger drinks "daddy's beer" and supper and that daddy saves the day by having the idea to go to a cafe! However DS loves it so I read it to him and imagine that the mum has her friend round and they drank a bit more than planned and left the house a mess, didn't bath the kids because they couldn't be bothered and decided to let daddy think it was his idea to take them out for dinner!

thatsnotgoingtowork · 29/06/2020 11:12

The Tiger who Came to Tea could easily be analysed as being about the patriarcy, or capitalism, or mental illness...

Almost any children's story could be interpreted in multiple dark ways if you wanted to.

It doesn't mean the author "meant" them that way.

I hate the book because the mother seems so wet (not literary criticism :o ) and the tiger comes in and takes whatever he wants and the woman is left apologising to her man for being violated ... The child is naive and thinks the Tiger is cuddly when it's a massive threat who's walked in and politely robbed the house without consequences, very much like an army requisitioning whatever it wants from defeated civilian populations.

If JK says she only meant to write a story about a child's imagination I'm sure she's telling the truth, but that doesn't stop it reflecting her unconcious observations during her life growing up mostly as a refugee during WW2.

Readers can read books however they want. Obviously most people read young children's picture books as light and fluffy though, and that's as legitimate as anything!

namechangedyetagain · 29/06/2020 11:15

Thank you, was obviously reading way too much into it. Love that last illustration - think I'll be using that this evening the way my day is going!!!

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sangrias · 29/06/2020 11:16

I thought it was about them having no money for food, electric etc.. mummy had to pretend and make it fun for the kid 'a tigers eaten it all' and then luckily the dad managed to get some money for dinner at the end.
Noone else?!

CaptainMyCaptain · 29/06/2020 11:19

When, as a teacher many years ago, I went to an inset day at a teachers'centre it was suggested that this was an extremely sexust story as it was implied that the mother was helpless and just let the tiger do what it wanted (it's a bloody tiger - you don't argue). I still liked the story, though, but when I read it at school I always asked the children what they thought their mums would do in that situation. They always had good ideas and none said their mums would just invite it in. Once, when I asked which cafe they would choose to go to if this happened, they came up with suggestions but one boy said 'No, I've got a good idea! Go to your Nana's then you won't have to pay!'.