I’m currently 27 weeks pregnant with my second child. The father seemed ok and happy when we found out and then one day out of the blue when I was around 20 weeks he turns round and says he doesn’t want me or the baby anymore. I was in complete shock and have been crying everyday and broken ever since. He barely even contacts me now and I just feel like a nuisance, he says the most awful things to me, like he wished he never met me and he never wanted any of this. Then some days he’ll apologise and be normal for like 2 or 3 days then he’s straight back to this again. I’m exhausted mentally and physically. I feel so ashamed and embarrassed of the situation I’m in and so sad that I have to do this all on my own now. I can’t cut myself off from him but I don’t think he will ever change. I have quite a high risk complicated pregnancy with a low placenta and bleeding and he can’t drag himself to be there to support me. Apparently it’s my fault and he never wanted this baby, he even said “oh I suppose I’ll have to be there I’m stuck with you for life now” My heart is broken, do I just need to cut him out completely ? I really don’t want to be on my own but I can’t deal with this anymore. This is all making me so ill.