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Bday 'party' for twins- 2 gifts?

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FondantPud · 22/06/2020 09:31

My child is in class with one of a set of twins. The other twin is in the other class in the year.

They are having a birthday gathering. My child only knows twin 1 from her class. Should we buy two presents one for each child or just the one?

I think it's probably two gifts but I've never had a twin party situation before so don't want to a screw it up

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EatsShootsAndRuns · 22/06/2020 09:32

I would buy two gifts.

Mamette · 22/06/2020 09:32

Yes, you buy a present for each birthday child.

ExpletiveDelighted · 22/06/2020 09:33

Yes, for any joint birthday parties we always bought for all the host children.

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LesleysChestnutBob · 22/06/2020 09:36

2 gifts but the one for twin 2 could be more of a token gift imo. I'm a twin if that makes a difference!

minisoksmakehardwork · 22/06/2020 09:36

Parent of twins here. You buy a gift for the twin that invited your child.

When I do joint parties, my twins invite their own friends from their class. The invitation is written from that twin only and there is no obligation to buy two gifts just because it is a joint party.

FondantPud · 22/06/2020 09:40

Thanks. Really helpful.

The invitation comes from both children - it's marked as "Jim and Johns's 6th birthday party" (not real names!) so I guess it's two gifts

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feesh · 22/06/2020 09:41

Another twin parent here. If the invite is just from one of them (which it probably is if your child is only friends with one) then just buy the one gift. If they’re friends with both, then maybe two presents, but honestly I get so pissed off with the inundation of toys with twin birthdays, that we have had two “no presents please” parties before now! The influx of stuff after a twin party is so enormous that a present won’t be missed, trust me!

feesh · 22/06/2020 09:42

It’s weird that they’ve done the invite from both. I deliberately avoid doing that so that people don’t feel obliged to buy two presents.

FondantPud · 22/06/2020 09:45

@feesh

Another twin parent here. If the invite is just from one of them (which it probably is if your child is only friends with one) then just buy the one gift. If they’re friends with both, then maybe two presents, but honestly I get so pissed off with the inundation of toys with twin birthdays, that we have had two “no presents please” parties before now! The influx of stuff after a twin party is so enormous that a present won’t be missed, trust me!

Perhaps a book voucher each would be better choice ? Though it will just look like a card !

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FondantPud · 22/06/2020 09:47

Ps I feel like that with the present pile with just the one child !!

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Needtheadvice · 22/06/2020 09:54

When going to twins parties we tend to give them equal measures in money so it goes towards something they want/need.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 22/06/2020 12:09

Id just put £10.00 in each in a card. It depends on your budget though.

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