Oh hell our minds really fuck with us. It’s just biology. Our body is sending signals to our brain telling us - ‘have another baby you have plenty of eggs!’
My kids were the worst sleepers. I hated being pregnant. Had traumatic births for the last two, had PND after my middle one - swore I’d never had another one.
Then when dd has just turned three I went shopping with a friend and she picked a Moses basket up to buy for some one and I had the biggest twang of broodiness, it shocked me! It was primal
Remind your self how bad you felt. How hard it is. That these kids don’t sleep. That baby smell lasts only a few months then your left with a baby that cries, never sleeps and makes life difficult.
The PND ( fucking bad news)
Walking round feeling like an alien
You’d have to get a new car that holds three child seats.
Holidays are more expensive, some times you can’t book five people in a room
The amount of money on nappies!
Three kids crying at once is a piss take.
The toll on your body
I can go on if you want 