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Free school meals extended over the holiday- are they needed?

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GotAnyGrapes17 · 16/06/2020 17:40

Have been chatting about this with various people during the day. Opinions go from "if you can't afford a couple of quid a week to feed your kids something is wrong" to people feeling this is a hugely essential scheme.

I just wondered if anyone who is entitled for FSM genuinely struggles during school holidays with out them.

No judgment here, my child use to be entitled to free school meals, however I didn't miss them during the school holidays....I am just interested to hear other views.

OP posts:
BBCONEANDTWO · 17/06/2020 08:28

Yes it''s so necessary - can you imagine the relief the parents must be feeling knowing they are getting a little bit more help.

I work full time and I am happy that vulnerable people are getting this little bit extra help. We really need to look after our vulnerable communities as a county.

Notonthestairs · 17/06/2020 08:28

If you don't approve of which shops the vouchers cover then I'd suggest you take it up the those running the scheme (government) rather than the families that qualify for the scheme. I know which have more power.

A small food only M&S is our nearest supermarket and it sells all the basics as well as the fancier stuff.

PrincessConsuelaVaginaHammock · 17/06/2020 08:29

@Speckledhen10

£15 a week per child. What the hell are they eating caviar ? I’m a nurse on band 5 with 2DC. I earn approx £200 a month more by nursing full time rather than being on benefits and doing sweet fa. I have to also pay for a car (think old banger) & hospital parking. So in August if I was on benefits I would have received £120 more with these vouchers. That’s really pissed me off knowing I’ll be working for £80 in August. Thank you Marcus. You obviously have no respect for nurses (and many other key workers on similar wages)
This is a fucking ridiculous take. You can disagree with the policy without descending into stupidity.

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Sweetlikecoca · 17/06/2020 08:30

I thought all supermarkets sold basics

Wankerchief · 17/06/2020 08:32

If I found my view to be thrashed as Katie Hopkins at any point id wonder why I was such a cunt and work to change it...

Notonthestairs · 17/06/2020 08:35

Sweetlikecocoa yes so why shouldn't people use vouchers there? You seem to want to restrict other people's choice.

HeyBlaby · 17/06/2020 08:36

Speckledhen10

£15 a week per child. What the hell are they eating caviar ? I’m a nurse on band 5 with 2DC. I earn approx £200 a month more by nursing full time rather than being on benefits and doing sweet fa. I have to also pay for a car (think old banger) & hospital parking. So in August if I was on benefits I would have received £120 more with these vouchers. That’s really pissed me off knowing I’ll be working for £80 in August.
Thank you Marcus. You obviously have no respect for nurses (and many other key workers on similar wages)"

A silly post and you have drawn conclusions which make no sense. As a nurse myself I would hope other nurses see the benefit to children of not having a Tesco value salmon paste sandwich for lunch every day (or indeed nothing) instead that £15 could ensure a variety of fruit, veg and other healthier snacks.

It isn't just about feeding children, it is also assisting parents to feed them well, which in both the long and short term will ensure better outcomes for them and in turn better outcomes for society.

Jkslays · 17/06/2020 08:37

Bloody hell do people not realise the amount of people using the food banks? It’s a national disgrace.

I don’t begrudge children getting free meals I just wish it was extended to working families too. Millions of people that are working are having to use food banks as well.

Also not all schools are issuing them.

bloodyhellsbellsx · 17/06/2020 08:43

I think he’s done brilliantly and I’m so pleased it’s continuing, vulnerable children will have really suffered throughout this pandemic with school removed, so at least they won’t be going hungry too.

@Speckledhen10 I’m a nurse too and I’m ashamed of your comment! Band 5 is a decent wage, especially with added weekend and night shift enhancement, and there is always the option of extra shifts and yet you begrudge support for jobless families?

Sweetlikecoca · 17/06/2020 08:43

@Notonthestairs

Sweetlikecocoa yes so why shouldn't people use vouchers there? You seem to want to restrict other people's choice.
It wasn’t me who wanted to restrict their chance. I gave my opinion and I don’t think it sat well with you. By all means shop in M&S don’t cry poverty Cos I wouldn’t believe a dam word. Each to their own.

It’s typically that’s those that get their full rent and CT paid. Moan about the money £15 what can you do with that. Ermmm well for every person receiving it will cost the gov A LOT. You get less money agreed but your out goings are a lot SMALLER.

There’s single mothers having to manage very similar!!

Flynn999 · 17/06/2020 08:46

I think the people that need them most are probably those on the lowest income who would normally be able to take their kids to various schemes/clubs that help families feed kids over the school holidays. These schemes obviously aren’t going to be open over the holiday so kids will unfortunately go without.

I’m not sure if they are, but I do think there should be restricted to food only items, so you can’t use them for alcohol or tobacco. But can use them for food items or gas/electric meter. I also think they should be redeemable against all supermarkets Asda/Morrison’s/Aldi/Lidl as well as corner shops etc. I’m not sure if that’s the case, but I think initially they were supermarket specific and you had to specify which shop you wanted? Not everyone has a Tesco in walkable distance.

I think a lot of people are in this situation through no choice of their own. The kids are due back to school so mum needs to buy uniform, can’t afford to pay for uniform and the council tax, so she misses the council tax (because nothing gets cut of), next month she can’t make up the extra £80
Or whatever she had to pay so she’s always behind on it. then it’s getting close to Christmas and she wants to buy her kids a few little bits. Again it’s either pay the council tax or buy the Xmas presents.... so she gets the kids a few extra bits and skips the rent, now she’s behind on the rent and the council tax. She then realises it’s 6 weeks to the next payment (the Christmas one was a week early) so she dips into the rent money again to buy food etc. Now she’s behind on the rent and the council tax. She keeps paying what she can but doesn’t have the extra, the kids have had a growth spurt and need new shoes. So she misses another rent payment to get them the shoes, but again she can’t keep up with the shortfall. She’s now behind on the rent and the landlord is saying if she doesn’t pay she’s out, so she doesn’t pay the council tax again, and tries to catch up with the rent. This is the sort of cycle that some people find themselves in. What the solution is, I have no idea. But I do think that food banks should be looking to work with debt charities to help people stop using food banks. So you get your parcel and someone is on hand to sit down and go through your debts to help you work out a plan (speaks to debtors on your behalf if you don’t want to). Even make sure you are claiming the correct level of benefits/pensions etc. I would guess that most people are using food banks because they are behind on rent/gas etc and food can often be ones of those things easily cut... IYSWIM.

I also think that it should be easier to get out of contracts for sky/mobile phones etc (granted those services would be cut immediately) but I don’t think it helps People who are in debt/struggling who still have to pay £90 to sky every month because when they took the package a year ago they could afford it, but sky won’t let them cancel without paying the cancellation charge which is the whole of their bloody contract cost.

Enko · 17/06/2020 08:51

My 22 year old daughter has a close friend same age. 6 weeks ago she agreed to look after her 2 younger sisters (8 and 10) for her mum over night. Mum has made the incomprehensible choice to not return and left a 22 year old and her fiance with 2 young girls.

Last week we collected dds stuff from uni and it was agreed between the friends that we would drop of dds freezer stuff for them to have. I also stuck in some bacon a chicken and some sausages. Friend burst into tears receving this. We got 3 text messages after and she posted on social media saying thank you for special friends.

Social services are involved and court has granted a temp residency for the 2 girls w their sister.

However I am thrilled for them this scheme exists. I know it will mean the difference between friend and her fiance eating enough this summer (he is an apprentice so small wage that supports them all) I know it means 2 little girls who have had their world turned upside down will feel a little safer and I know my daughters friend will sleep a little better knowing she can get through this.

I am thankful I have never been in this situation. Pissed off we are writing 2020 and children still go hungry. However i 100% support this scheme and I am pleased it has happened. There are sadly many others like dds friend.

OldLace · 17/06/2020 09:11

I replied to the OP's original Qu as I thought it might be helpful.
There were a few posts where it seemed the posters were not happy that kids who qualify would receive FSM over the summer hols / or at least that they did not also qualify. I understand that many are struggling. So, I posted a 2nd time, more personal, about my experience of poverty in the 1980's and my kids / their community now: it IS needed by some - as much as then, more than ever, sadly.

The scandal is not that benefits are too high / undeserving scroungers / 'shouldn't be on MN' etc (the internet is a cheap utility)
It is that real wages for essential workers are too low.
We have all seen in the last few months that what society really needs to function are essential workers - bus drivers, supermarket staff, nurses, teachers, delivery drivers, volunteers, & yes, carers too.
These are all people who contribute to society. Differently to hedge fund managers. Some might say in more fundamentally helpful way.

The real sadness is that those whose personal wealth cushions them seem to have set those in need (more of us than not, it seems?) against each other like this. It (shouldn't be) a race to the bottom.

okiedokieme · 17/06/2020 09:15

I don't begrudge it at all but £2-3 per day is a lot, I don't spend that much per head per day on an evening meal and lunch. But I can cook so don't buy ready meals and other junk

okiedokieme · 17/06/2020 09:18

@Sweetlikecoca

Nobody has to buy lunch at work - we take sandwiches or leftovers to heat in the microwave. I have coffee and a mug, work provides a kettle and microwave (or did, microwave broke pre lockdown)

Idroppedthescrewinthetuna · 17/06/2020 09:31

They really need to address this and fast.
I am entitled to free school meals. Vouchers for my children are sent via email every 2 weeks.
Now my issue, I was entitled to FSM back in 2018. There was a cross over with jobs for about a month. I did not claim benefits but declared myself with no income as I was not sure when I would find a job.
I am now in a 24k job. If I applied now I would not be entitled to them. But because my kids were entitled back in 2018 I still am entitled now. We don't need them and we have donated some to people we know who are struggling. We have spoken to the school and they said there is nothing they can do as we are entitled.
Surely this needs to be changed. There are people out of jobs now, so they definitely do need them, it would cost the tax payer so much less if they took people like me off the list.

I hate that I receive them when there are people out there struggling so this is why I donate them.

Scruffyoak · 17/06/2020 09:33

I know of some that do abuse the system as usual but ultimately feel that it is a good idea right now and we can't forget those in need.

Parker231 · 17/06/2020 09:48

@okiedokieme - why would you think that those receiving fsm would not cook meals for their DC’s. Those families are no different from anyone else’s.

chomalungma · 17/06/2020 10:01

I do have to admit that the boy on GMB this morning wasn't arguing that well for FSM from a food point of view - I think he is in the Youth Parliament and is on FSM. He was saying that it stops pupils eating junk food, ready meals and less healthy food.

Yet it's cheaper to cook healthy meals rather than doing ready meals and junk food.

Agree with FSM - but the argument he was using - and he is a lead campaigner for this - wasn't a good one.

2007Millie · 17/06/2020 11:04

@chomalungma
I have to disagree. I think it's much cheaper to buy ready meals; the basic ranges are scarily cheap.

Gooseygoosey12345 · 17/06/2020 11:07

I think it's awful that it's needed, and there will be some that abuse the system, but I also think that children shouldn't have to go without food in any circumstance. Whether it's because their parent lost their job or because they spend their money on booze, it's not the child's fault

Jkslays · 17/06/2020 11:23

@chomalungma

I do have to admit that the boy on GMB this morning wasn't arguing that well for FSM from a food point of view - I think he is in the Youth Parliament and is on FSM. He was saying that it stops pupils eating junk food, ready meals and less healthy food.

Yet it's cheaper to cook healthy meals rather than doing ready meals and junk food.

Agree with FSM - but the argument he was using - and he is a lead campaigner for this - wasn't a good one.

Actually it isn’t.

Unless your kids like eating carrot and swede every day it’s going to be difficult.

For some the cheaper shops where you can buy fresh veg from are a bus ride away ( if you can’t afford a car) a buss ticket for you and your kids return is expensive.

The village I grew up in is predominantly working class/unemployed. There is a Tesco metro ( which is very expensive) and a low cost freezer shop. And that’s it.

You can buy four pizzas for a pound and a bag of frozen chips for another pound. £2 to feed four people. If you went over to Tesco express and bought the ingredients to make that from scratch your looking at £10 +

Even if you made meat and two veg your looking at least £8 to feed a family of four. ( unless your going to live of bags of pasta every day) And no stretching a chicken out to last four days doesn’t work in the real world.

Its a real bug bear of mine when people say this because for a lot of people it’s just not true

If your on benefits and you’ve been sanctioned especially for something like not having the travel money to get to the appointment ( because sometimes in life something comes up that you have to pay for that you havnt budgeted for) and you get your money stopped. Your fucked.

HalfTermHalfTerm · 17/06/2020 11:46

Parker231
@Willowmartha1 - M&S and Waitrose are included as they are the nearest shops for some people and although the vouchers would go much further at Aldi, the costs of getting there would mean they loose the value.

This is bullshit. Nobody struggles will be doing their full food shopping in Waitrose or M&S. Even to pay for transport you are still going to save. What on earth.

What an insult.

What about families who only have the vouchers to spend? £15 will not get you a shop delivered from most of the major supermarkets (if people can even get a delivery slot and if the vouchers can be spent online which I’m not sure they can) so it will be a case of going to the shops that you can get to. If you can’t drive, you only have the food vouchers (maybe with a bit extra) and the only supermarket within walking distance is Waitrose then obviously you need to be able to shop at Waitrose.

You’re almost certainly right in saying that any family who does a full food shop in an M&S food hall isn’t struggling. But those families won’t be getting the vouchers Hmm

Sweetlikecoca · 17/06/2020 12:52

The idea is that it’s an additional to your usual shopping budget** so what ever you normally spend you would use the voucher or perhaps save them? As it’s something you would not get all the time. You would need to maybe budget.

In most towns M&S are located in town centres along side other shops. Most people can get a bus into the town centre to get a weekly shop. If your suggesting otherwise and that’s the reason for going to the nearest M&S I’d say it’s a bit far fetched. M&S aren’t usually your corner shop like your making out. Also even if it was you may buy a few bits from there but not your entire shop.

Graphista · 17/06/2020 13:30

@Newyorkhereicome excellent post. Absolutely employers should be paying an ACTUAL living wage.

The discrepancy between nmw and ceo level pay is wider than its ever been in this country

Nobody on her has said "let the kids go hungry" actually numerous posters have implied EXACTLY that sentiment! That they'd rather CHILDREN go hungry than taxpayers feed them.

Yes ideally their parents could afford to feed them but poor wages, a badly run economy etc are making that impossible for too many families

@Curlyshabtree thank you

Surely the anger shouldn't be at the fact it has now been agreed they will provide the vouchers, but at the fact they are needed in the first place ?

Exactly!

Tories and Tory voters have banged on for DECADES that tories are supposedly better at running the economy, that has now been roundly and thoroughly disproven, bloody obvious really - a well run economy does not have the levels of poverty we currently see which have been increasingly worsening over last 10 years or so, people in a WEALTHY Country literally DYING of starvation

In England we are not in poverty most of the time we have a welfare system.

@sweetlikecoca

1 there is a difference between relative poverty and absolute poverty - I strongly suggest you educate yourself on these matters

2 there absolutely ARE people and families in absolute poverty in this country and that has been increasing over the term of this govt, street homelessness, malnutrition & associated diseases have all increased.

3 this govt have continually and repeatedly “tweaked” the welfare system in order to reduce spending, NOT because we can’t afford it but because THEY don’t agree with it. They have ideological bias against having a welfare system inc nhs and ALWAYS HAVE - easy for them to decide/believe this considering to the best of my knowledge not 1 of the current cabinet have ever had to go without ANYTHING essential in their lives! They’ve certainly never gone fucking hungry!

They believe the poor are poor through laziness and fecklessness which is utter bollocks!

As I said in my previous post it is pure LUCK

This cartoon provides a brief and very simplified explanation

https://digitalsynopsis.com/inspiration/privileged-kids-on-a-plate-pencilsword-toby-morris/

A big problem in UK people have poor money management you’re right - but I suspect you don’t understand exactly why!

Financial education is STILL not considered an important part of education, Martin Lewis has been campaigning for it to be a full and thorough part of the curriculum for years, but so far no success - it suits govts (I fear of all colours to a degree sadly) for the populace NOT to understand fiscal management even at a basic level, it leaves the population mired in debt and stress that distracts from other issues.

I am LUCKY that I have parents who are quite savvy - not by being taught by their parents particularly (though they both came from v poor working class backgrounds, both literally born into glasgow slum conditions post war, so money had to be carefully managed) but in my mothers case from working in accounting depts and having kindly mentors and from educating themselves by reading up in library books and certain other resources.

THEY were LUCKY to in mums case get the jobs with those colleagues who were able and willing to teach her and BOTH to have the ability to understand and learn about interest rates etc - not everyone has that ability!

They taught us (siblings and I) basic budgeting, savvy shopping (not to blindly accept a special offer is actually cheaper, to calculate price per ml/g to compare, what ingredients make meals go further), practical skills (cooking, sewing, clothes care, basic diy and car and cycle maintenance) - again LUCKY they had been taught, LUCKY they & we were capable of both learning and being able to carry out these things.

I’m disabled now so some things I have to pay someone to do and it’s most disheartening but necessary.

Most of life is LUCK!

Johnson isn’t as wealthy as he is due to hard work! He was born into a wealthy, fit, healthy and intellectual family and has never done a days GRAFT in his life!!

Also, for those commenting on how they aren't getting much more than people on benefits, that indicates wages are too low for the cost of living, not that benefits are too high. absolutely!

Their ire is aimed in the wrong direction, don’t begrudge those worse off than you who have NO power to change things, get angry at the wealthy and powerful who COULD make your lives better and CHOOSE not to - because they think you’re not worthy!

@sweetlikecoca it is NOT bullshit! Peoples circumstances change and they can well find themselves living in a rural area with only m&s or Waitrose as the nearest stores and astronomically expensive AND minimal public transport!

What the solution is, I have no idea.

How about instead of taxpayers money being used to fund vanity projects, unnecessary mps expenses, to bribe corporations with tax breaks etc that money is used to provide enough welfare support?

How about employers are legally required to pay an ACTUAL living wage and not allowed to use shitty zero hours contracts?

Just for starters!

But I do think that food banks should be looking to work with debt charities to help people stop using food banks many if not most already do - but you can’t get blood out of a stone! If people don’t have enough income to cover basic living costs what are they supposed to do?

Even make sure you are claiming the correct level of benefits/pensions etc again, mostly already happens, but this govts welfare “reforms” mean that most if not all benefits have been effectively cut due to freezes etc, universal credit has been used to sneakily reduce what claimants receive, bedroom tax etc, also the people & agencies who are trained and able to advise claimants have Also suffered major cuts due to central govt policies.

I also think that it should be easier to get out of contracts for sky/mobile phones etc this is a bit trickier as those companies have to cover their costs too but I think shorter contracts should be available - I remember when mobile phone contracts were first a “thing” that 3 and 6 month contracts were possible. There is an element of financial education being a factor here, people need taught how to properly understand IF they can afford such a contract for the length of the contract IF they were to lose their job or something.

In terms of phones and other IT - I’d personally make “planned obsolescence” illegal as it’s starting to be in some countries. That IT companies are currently allowed to DELIBERATELY design tech to only last 2-3 years is a disgrace.

I’d also tighten up regulation of the how well made larger household items are - white goods, hoovers etc as there seem to be a lot of corners cut there now too yet consumers are being charged horrific amounts for kit which doesn’t last more than 4/5 years.

@okiedokieme - then acknowledge you are LUCKY

LUCKY that someone taught you how to cook

LUCKY that you’re fit and well enough to cook

LUCKY that you have the time to cook

LUCKY that you have the resources to cook - some of the poorest families in the Uk don’t even have a cooker, or if they do can’t afford the energy to run it and THAT is why they’re doing microwave meals or pot noodles or whatever!

I think it's much cheaper to buy ready meals; the basic ranges are scarily cheap. also very true!

@sweetlikecoca I live in a very deprived area, 2 of the villages near me the ONLY shop is a small m&s food shop, the public transport to these villages is woefully inadequate and hideously expensive.

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