Not going to give too much detail so as not to out myself. Aside from my paid job volunteer for a really small charity entirely dependent on donations. I was talking to one of the charity’s donors last week and in retelling a story, he said, “he was a black man...” this was totally irrelevant to the conversation. I did not challenge. Partly because I was taken aback. Partly because his organisation gives the charity money. What would you have done, honestly? I wish I had challenged but I’m sceptical as to how that could have gone.