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Is there anyone left who lives in a house that doesn't have a colour scheme, style, aesthetic or what have you?

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MrsToadofToadHall · 16/06/2020 07:52

Just musing as I scroll through social media...

Most people I know seem to have houses where there's a distinct theme - one colour/style of furniture per room, curtains that match sofas, some of it is to my taste and some isn't, but either way you can tell at a glance what they are trying to do, be it grey chrome or white minimalism or rainbow or whatever.

When I was a kid, I don't remember people's houses running along one particular theme the way they do now, obviously you'd have a few trends pop up, but I don't remember things being so matchy matchy, except perhaps for my aunt's house, where she had a "special" sitting room for the adults, all done in terracotta and pine. Mostly though it seemed to be a case of, I like this picture, I'll put it on the wall. MIL has given me a pot plant, I'll shove in that corner. Those curtains would do for the bedroom. That's a nice colourful hard-wearing rug, it'll go in the hall. I don't think there was quite as much emphasis on everything tying in so exactly to everything else. My house is a bit like this now - all the walls are white, because we had to redecorate when we bought it and I was sick of rental magnolia, the curtains in every room are different patterns because my granny got a seamstress friend to run some up for us as a housewarming present, our bedroom furniture is a complete mishmash of nothing matching, that sort of thing. I love our house and I'm not complaining, but I don't think you'd walk in and be able to pinpoint any particular style or trend.

I know people from quite a range of backgrounds and incomes, so it's not something that seems particular to any group, just that homes in general seem to be more styled/pulled together/matchy these days.

Is it because of social media? Because it's easier to get bits and pieces in places like B&M? Though there's always been home stores

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GreyishDays · 16/06/2020 07:55

It’s just because things are cheaper isn’t it?

Ginfordinner · 16/06/2020 07:56

Our house doesn't look "put together" at all, but it looks homely.

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 16/06/2020 07:57

My house isn't matchy-matchy. Although I do have matching furniture but that's due to practicality (IKEA).

I grew up in a matching house. Everything (and I mean everything) matched. A lot of it was from Fads - so same pattern on wallpaper, bedding, cushions, curtains, lampshades.

I hated it. Thought it looked naff. Maybe that's why I've gone the other way.

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GreekOddess · 16/06/2020 07:57

I'm not sure I have a theme. I go for what I like and I'm not sure what style it would be considered. Scandi influences perhaps but a bit more luxurious in my living room as I like somewhere I can relax in the evening.

GreekOddess · 16/06/2020 07:58

Growing up everything matched. My mum will still ask me now what theme I have in each room and expects everything to match.

MilkTwoSugarsThanks · 16/06/2020 07:58

We have a kind of a colour scheme in most rooms. I tried when we first decorated but it's gone to pot a bit. No matching furniture either. Too poor!!!

Finfintytint · 16/06/2020 07:59

I agree that grey and glittery crap is very cheap in B and M.
I would say my home decor is eclectic....stuff I like, stuff given to me, inherited etc. If I had to put a label on it I would say it is Victorian gloom.

missyB1 · 16/06/2020 08:00

My house is devoid of character or colour scheme or any kind of thoughtful planning! I’m just rubbish at knowing how to put a look together. I can’t choose wisely. I wonder if I’m colour blind sometimes, everything clashes. The whole house is painted magnolia now because it’s safe.

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 16/06/2020 08:02

Remember Changing Rooms with their fecking 'themes'?

A Roman style room complete with pillars, fake marble floor and statues of well-endowed men...

...in a three bed semi in Bristol.

WTF were they thinking?

CeeceeBloomingdale · 16/06/2020 08:02

I hate matching things. I do like things that 'go' together and also quirky, interesting things. My style is very much my own and people seem to make themselves at home and feel comfortable at my place. I hate the current grey look although I don't actually use a lot of colour myself.

thebear1 · 16/06/2020 08:03

I have attempted some flow in each room but not throughout the whole house. So the sofas go with the paint colour etc but much of my house has just evolved over the years. I have never really understood home shows where not only do they build a house but also kit it out from scratch, don't people already have belongings they are attached to?

hopeishere · 16/06/2020 08:08

No ours doesn't all match. Do you mean curtains matched to rug matched to cushions look? Or a full grey house type thing?

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 16/06/2020 08:08

I've only painted 2 rooms since I moved in to this house 3 years ago. One room has had a new carpet really just because my son asked for one.

Furniture is a mixture of ikea and junk shop and things other people have left outside to give away. Plus a couple of heirlooms.

It's quite higgeldy piggeldy. I think eclectic would oversell it.

I love the rooms I have painted but don't have time and energy and money to do more than I have. The house was in such a state when we moved in. The garden needed a lot of attention. It was so much work just to get rid of the junk that had been left and clean it properly.

It looks decent enough for guests and is comfortable.

MrsToadofToadHall · 16/06/2020 08:09

God I LOVED changing rooms, I used to watch it with mum and we'd delight in being horrified at the final results. I must see if you can get it on YouTube

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BadAlice · 16/06/2020 08:09

Well unless you count ’slightly mental colourful cottage’ as a theme, we don’t have one. A lot of our furniture is secondhand or cobbled together from old flat shares. Each room has one ’main’ colour but there is a lot of variation!

I do a lot of home visits for work and omg I am bored of grey and silver. It’s not classy, it’s boring.

OutComeTheWolves · 16/06/2020 08:10

I think there's just more to help people these days plus things are cheaper.
So I like a room to look put together but I'm crap at it, so I find and copy things on Pinterest and Instagram. I wouldn't have had this option years ago so my house would've looked a bit crap and I wouldn't have realised that I quite enjoy decorating.

Also I think there was less choice. I'm not sure if it was just my parents but we got literally everything from mfi.

mdh2020 · 16/06/2020 08:11

We’ve lived in our house for 50 years. It’s a muddle and messy, full of books and no room on the walls for any more paintings. It is homely, co for table and lived in.

Mirrorsin · 16/06/2020 08:11

I agree completely with your post. My home just has things in it we like /are useful /we could afford. No sense of style here but it's clean(ish) comfortable and cosy.

crimsonlake · 16/06/2020 08:13

I would describe my house as homely and eclectic, perhaps shabby chic. I do not follow trends, buy items that I like and things do not have to match and coordinate. It would never occur to me to follow a trend.

Musmerian · 16/06/2020 08:16

@Finfintytint - great fan of Victorian gloom!

sunshinestanley · 16/06/2020 08:16

We have no theme at all. Lots of colour - I would say 3 neutral rooms and then green, blue, yellow etc. To be honest, I just gather things around me that I love and actively avoid anything matching.

Matching decor makes me feel like I'm in a holiday cottage - lovely for a week, but when it comes down to it, lacking in character.

SoupDragon · 16/06/2020 08:17

Mine is full of things that I love rather than a picked style and therefore I don't tend to change it often other than to freshen it up. I find it odd when people have a clear out of pretty much everything because they are changing their look (well, not odd as such, it's just completely not "me"). I also it odd when I look at houses on Rightmove and they are a sea of one colour.

I think it is a combination of price, ease of buying things and the sheer volume of pictures on social media.

Finfintytint · 16/06/2020 08:17

Ha ha. I love it.

Defenestratethecat · 16/06/2020 08:19

Think it's because houses no longer grow over time. We were married aeons ago and couldn't afford to furnish/decorate our whole house at once, so it grew over years - we bought paintings and furniture piece by piece, stuff we lived (and still do). Apart from redecorating (painting) and usually in the same colours, the only thing we've bought recently, last 20 years or so, has been a new sofa, and that was more down to pet damage than anything else.

Younger family me tend to furnish/decorate their whole home when getting married/moving in with partner, and you can tell approximate dates by turquoise/mustard/copper accessories or wallpaper feature walls Grin.

I buy the occasional 'homes' magazine and have wondered if people change their decor for every new trend.

EggysMom · 16/06/2020 08:19

No theme, just practicality - whirlwind autistic son means clear floors, very few ornaments, practical furniture, and grubby walls Grin