Me and DH are very close to both our families and see them most weeks. Our LG is 18 weeks old. I went back to work 2 weeks ago. Now we can sit in gardens we tend to go to my parents on a Sunday. I never thought we'd be in this position but I want a weekend day to ourselves. DH is on shared leave so can take the baby to sit in his parents garden during the week. His parents have made various promises about helping (most recently with mat leave that never materialised, hence me being back at work) but as a conservative estimate help his sister with around £500 a month. In normal times I would have expected to see everyone at our house so less travel. But as it is we're in a terrace and can use side gates at their houses to limit any contact. Should we take it in turns at the weekend? Or does it not make a difference if I'm not there?