Hi all! I’ve namechanged as I have posted about this before and didn’t want to be identified.
I just need to know if I’m expecting too much or not?
Partner of 15 years, four kids together, big messy house. He’s furloughed and I’m a sahm.
Since furlough started he has been a bit low, but then took up a new hobby and now does his hobby every day, as well as going out on his bike, every day. He’s not out all day but at least half of the day.
When he is here he only makes lunch for the kids when I ask him to. Does absolutely nothing else! No dishwasher, no laundry, no cleaning. Even told me he “didn’t want to” when I said he should clean the loo (for the first time ever).
When not furloughed, he works very hard and I pick up the slack at home but the point is, he has all the time in the world right now and there a list of diy jobs as long as my arm, let alone all the other everyday tasks.
He’s a shit, isn’t he? Any ideas of how I can get him to do more around the house? Or should I LTB?