That make you wonder how you survived?
I was really a very "good" young person. Never got into trouble at school or gave my parents any extreme worries. Even so, I do sometimes wonder how I made it through.
When I was about 18, I'd been to nightclub with a friend (she was driving, neither of us had much to drink). We met some lads and arranged to go to a graveyard with them after closing. No idea why that seemed like a good idea!. We drove separately to the graveyard, I think all parties were surprised that the other actually turned up. Spent a pleasant hour or two chatting among the graves and got home as it was getting light then went to work
It could have gone so differently, we got away with it and I sometimes wonder if that experience has helped my attitude towards others to be more "most people are basically decent" than "everyone's out to get you"
As far as I recall, we never saw them again so maybe the night didn't go as they'd hoped
but we never felt threatened.