I just want him to leave

[TeresaMayspants]

I think my marriage is over. My husband shouted at me today because I cleaned the windows. Apparently I should have been emptying the dishwasher instead. I be realised he sees me a servant not as a partner or a wife.

He’s a workaholic and has been working at home during lockdown. He ignores me and the kids during the week. He doesn’t help with the housework as he’s too busy with work. I work 25 hours a week. Look after our 2 and 5 year old and do the housework cook all the meals. Shopping etc. So not like I’m just sitting on my arse.

I’m just sitting downstairs while he’s upstairs. We’ve not spoken since it happened this morning. He’s spent the day passive aggressively cleaning.

I just feel like I don’t even like him anymore. I think lockdown has just brought everything to ahead. I loved him so much once and now I just feel nothing

He does sound horrible. Let him get on with the cleaning now.

He's utterly selfish to leave everything to you during lockdown.

Well I just went upstairs and he’s asleep.

You sound miserable and I'm sure your kids have picked up on it too, do yourself and your kids a favour and think of your own happiness, he sounds like an arse hole and not the best dad to just ignore his kids

Put a pillow over the fucker's head...
Or drown him in Flash.
What a twat.

Looks like lockdown has shone a light on your relationship....your not a maid or a servant. Your meant to be his partner - he isnt

Oh dear, I'm so sorry your going through this, it must be awful spending lockdown with such a bully. You need to make plans, you can't stay with this man. It is possible to come out of the other side but you need to start thinking practically. One step at a time.