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Later PND symptoms and experience

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DucklingstoDaisys · 05/06/2020 04:14

My DS is now six months old. He is such a happy lovely baby. He rarely causes me any issues and I feel incredibly lucky when I hear of other people having problems with their babies. I'm not blowing my own trumpet but objectively I know he is well looked after and I love him more than anything else in the entire world. But I can't help but feel I'm failing him. We have started to meet people socially at a distance and I can only manage a couple of hours before my anxiety hits the roof and I need to get back to the safety of home. I start panicking that he is going to get ill and I've done something wrong and all other mother's would have done it all differently to how I did it. I'm constantly now ringing my poor mum for her advice and reassurance. I feel sick most of the time. I'm living off biscuits and not drinking enough so I feel like crap. My day is filled with feeling guilty I'm not getting him to nap properly and for long enough whilst trying to play with him and entertain him then also getting all the chores done and dinner cooked. I'm exhausted and I go to sleep early only to wake up in the night and worry about everything and cry. And then the new day begins and the cycle continues. Obviously I feel I probably should contact a GP but is this usual, is this just part of being a parent and like anything it will eventually just pass? I don't really want to go on antidepressants because I can't sleep with them and they make me feel horrible. I don't really know what to do.

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Mo81 · 05/06/2020 10:12

Aww hun you sound like me i have recently been diagnosed with pnd .it is normal to have anciety as a new parent but not to the level you are describeing. I woupd strongly advise you speak to your gp . Ihavealways been against anti depressents but i got to the point i couldnt cope without them. Mines complicated as i had a very difficult pregnancy and a previous stillbirthim now waiting for cbt therapy. Please get help.

Wotrewelookinat · 05/06/2020 11:55

Please contact your GP. I struggled on until my twins were 18 months old before seeing my GP and being diagnosed with PND. The main sign for me was anxiety. I just thought I was tired and stressed but I realised I was getting no enjoyment from them at all, and every day was a struggle. I was prescribed citalopram which worked really well for me. Is this an AD you’ve tried before?

sixnearlyseven · 05/06/2020 12:39

Six months isnt late onset really, I had pnd at 8 months with my first. Its really common and I think its because we have been living on adrenalin for the first six months or so

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DucklingstoDaisys · 05/06/2020 14:51

Thank you for your replies. Have rung the GP and awaiting for a return call. I don't really know what to say because I don't want to discuss how I feel. I just want to feel better.

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Wotrewelookinat · 05/06/2020 18:18

How did the call go? You could write something down so you don’t clam up when you get the call

DucklingstoDaisys · 05/06/2020 19:22

@wotrewelookinat phone call was ok. GP was very understanding (DS screaming in the background... typical he had been in a lovely mood all day, phone rings = hysterical crying) we spoke about self harm etc which I'm not feeling like that. I think it is more PNA than PND. He has referred for counseling and ring back if I want any medication. My work have a mental health team and my boss is going to put me in touch. I didn't even know I could access this when on maternity so that's good. Thank you for asking how it went. I haven't told DP as he already makes comments and I don't need any more.

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