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Does he like me? Is he using me?

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evie1990 · 05/06/2020 02:12

So I met a guy a few months ago
We have met up around 6 times
I really like him so much
He says all the right things before we meet and when we are together, we then have sex
Then after he's done seeing me he goes completely silent on me
He doesn't follow me on Instagram anymore but he views my stories and replies to them from time to time
He met my baby son in December and that was the last time I saw him, but he has said a couple of times that he misses us both
He's been extremely silent lately and hardly ever talks to me
I have been living with my parents for the past couple of years but have just moved into my new home, he has just found out from my Instagram story now all of a sudden I get a text asking if he can come over to see me
I've been thinking about it all day and would absolutely love for him to come over as I'm really into him but my heart is telling me he is just using me for sex so I haven't replied to him yet
Should I just go with my gut feeling and cut him off?
It hurts how much I like him but I just don't feel he likes me back
It feels like he only wants to see me when it suits him and its always for sex
I really wish he would like me back but I'm afraid he's just using me and it hurts so bad

OP posts:
Aquamarine1029 · 05/06/2020 02:18

If you have to ask if he likes you, the answer is probably not the way you want him to.

Should I just go with my gut feeling and cut him off?

Of course you should. Never, ever ignore your gut feelings. They don't lie.

evie1990 · 05/06/2020 08:25

Thanks for the response. I'm going to cut him off but it's going to be hard to get over him knowing he used me

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CurtainWitcher · 05/06/2020 08:28

Are you in the UK? He can't come over sex, if so!

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cato75 · 05/06/2020 09:20

Yes, ditch this user and chalk it down to experience. New house new start.

allfalldown47 · 05/06/2020 09:21

You've introduced a guy you barely know, who you've met only 6 times to your baby.
Ffs....

Pavlova31 · 05/06/2020 15:19

You can do a lot better than being treated like this Op.
You deserve so much more than he is showing you.
Yes,if you are in the UK he is not allowed to come round and see you anyway.

joystir59 · 05/06/2020 15:46

He just wanted a shag. He isn't and wasn't interested in you. Move on.

chubbyhotchoc · 05/06/2020 15:48

Stop with the doormat behaviour. Block him

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