OP, ml is a measure of volume, grams is a measure of weight*. You can't convert one to the other without more information.
Your question is not far off "I've got a pound of flour, how much is that in feet?". It doesn't make sense.
Not to mention that at 100ml, the weight of the fluid is likely to be less than that of the bottle, spraypump, and packaging.
ALL THAT SAID 100ml ain't a lot, alcohol is lighter than water**, and it is in a light metal tube, and you're not going to use a massive box are you? So allow 300g and you probably won't go far wrong.
- yes yes mass, quiet down nitpickers, not the place
** water is 1ml = 1g. This doesn't hold true for pretty much anything else - 1ml of alcohol = 0.79g, for example. 1ml of mercury weighs 13.5g.
For reference: The Royal Mail site gives these as examples -
Letter or greeting card - 30g
Standard DL (110mm x 220mm) envelope with 4 sheets of A4 - 44g
CD in bubble envelope - 130g
A4 envelope with 20 sheets of A4 - 160g
Mobile phone in bubble envelope - 180g
DVD in bubble envelope - 190g
400 page paperback book in bubble envelope - 310g
Pair of jeans - 500g
Glossy magazine in bubble envelope - 585g
Pair of trainers - 1kg