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Opting out of Father's Day emails

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SistemaAddict · 03/06/2020 20:58

I've had two of these this week. One from Love Cocoa and one from Tesco. They are along the lines of knowing that Father's Day can be difficult for some people and therefore if you prefer you can opt out. I don't recall having this for Mother's Day but it might not have registered. I lost my dad several years ago and the dc have got absent fathers so Father's Day is difficult for me and a day when I remember my dad. I also let myself appreciate how tough it is at times being the only parent and think I'll treat myself to something nice this year. Not that they are in school anyway but I'm always grateful that their catholic school doesn't really do Father's Day but Mother's Day/Mothering Sunday is a big thing both there and at church. Not a big thing as in extravagant or over the top but an appreciation and thank you to mums. It's lovely and the reception children do a special assembly for their mums. Of course that didn't happen this year though so ds missed out.

If you are a single mum and your dc don't have a dad in their lives (due to being absent rather than deceased) do you do anything on Father's Day? Do you acknowledge it at all? Do your children get upset? My dds used to see their dad on Father's Day but due to abuse no longer see him at all. This will be the first year of not seeing him. Ds has only met his dad once and knows no different. Very sad all round but I've done all I can so we will acknowledge the day and do something to remember my dad and be led by the dds on what they want.

Thanksto all those who will find the day difficult

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SistemaAddict · 04/06/2020 08:45

Anyone?

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Lola001 · 04/06/2020 12:37

I had them for mothers day I thought it was lovely of them it was from quite a few retailers too

Youvegotafriendinme · 04/06/2020 12:43

Only last night I had that conversation with DH. I have had so many emails from companies opting out of Father’s Day emails but only had 2 (from Superdrug and Holland and Barrett) for Mother’s Day. I lost DM 2 years ago so the mum emails were sensitive and I would have appreciated many more of them.

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goingoverground · 04/06/2020 13:08

I didn't receive any emails to opt out of Mother's Day promotions but I've been inundated with opt out emails for Father's Day. Presumably, although it is not a new idea, many more companies are doing it because it would be ignorant not to when so many young, healthy fathers have lost their lives unexpectedly recently.

Ironically, despite having lost my DF over a decade ago, I found the emails asking me if I want to opt out quite upsetting. I just tune out advertising and marketing spam, they are just background noise. I don't think about the content, it's just junk mail. Whereas being asked whether I want to opt out because I have lost my father made me think about my loss rather than thinking "I am not interested in your tat and BOGOFs whether it is for Father's Day, Back to School or Christmas".

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