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Ash332310 · 26/05/2020 19:40

Hi, please no negative comments.. at the weekend we found we were pregnant again I already have 5month baby.. so this was completely unplanned.. at first I was excited.. and then I told my partner and he asked if I wanted to keep it (abortion hadn’t even entered my mind) we don’t have a lot of support to help and money would be realy tight and I don’t know how I would cope on my own with 2 baby just 12months apart.. so we decided maybe we would have to have a abortion.. and this broke my heart.. I’m now a wave of emotions... My head is telling me it’s not the right time and I won’t be able to cope but my heart is saying you will find away..
how will i roll around on the floor and play with my son if I’m heavily pregnant.. i had a tough labour with my son and was unable to realy walk for 12 weeks.. what if this happens again and I’m at home with 2..
I’m so lost with what to do.. has anyone been through this before? How did you cope with 2 so young?

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MrMagooInTheLoo · 26/05/2020 23:34

If your in the UK and eligible you'll get tax credits and child benefit. You need to talk to someone not connected to you do can get information and make an informed decision. Of course it would be hard but not impossible if its what you both want. Think you and DH need to be open and talk about what each other wants to do, and if you disagree then you need to keep talking. You're both in shock obviously.

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