Where could he be? Bizarre dream

[MindBoggles]

So last night I had an amazing dream of someone I met 20 years ago.

It was a bizarre meeting - I was young 18-19 2nd or 1st year Uni - on train back to my uni from my home town. Sat on the train and opposite literally the most beautiful beautiful man I've ever seen in my life - literally I've never been so attracted to anyone - we got talking and turned out he had been visiting his grandfather - he was 18 in my home town.

We talked and then next thing I knew (poor fellow passengers) we were literally all over each other it was a real electric attraction - every part of me was just drawn to him. This was a two hour journey and he continued South.

We were in my home town at the same time a few months later and he visited my family business (I didn't know he was around) and we ended up meeting in the local park and just once again I suppose that teenage thing just all over each other - it was so so animal. No sex - just lots of talking - kissing - touching. I remember it feeling electric. He was incredibly sexual - he was absolutely stunning.

The thing is we were young - teenagers - lived far apart and in reality nothing would come of it and we never met again.

But last night for the first time honestly in 19-20 years I had a dream about him and this morning I feel that feeling again - and it's immense and I guess it's just one of those things

That was it really - perhaps the delights of lockdown can't believe that feeling happened again and in my dream and I guess nothing to say except it was amazing. I wonder what he's doing now? I don't even remember his name.

He was a surfer and a skater. Very tanned and toned! Them were the days!

Enjoy the feeling your dream has given you, op. I also have dreams about past loves and it's lovely to get that excited feeling again without being unfaithful to dh

Yes I feel a bit guilty!

I was desperately in love with a boy at school. It wasn't the crazy, physical, sexual attraction you describe op. I was an innocent teen and we were both shy and very bookish. He played cello and I used to watch him (like a creepy creeper) and sigh like a total twit. He was a friend and I loved him for all of high school but never told him. He admitted years later that he felt the same way (both settled down by then).

Sometimes I dream about him and it's the same feeling: simple, straightforward yearning and I wake up feeling a bit sad but pleased iyswim.

@ShowOfHands maybe this will turn into a thread of just memories and happy feelings.

Yes I had a similar friend to you at school - in fact in our year book I looked through he said - it's a shame we lost our friendship.

He was of a different religion and we were both from strict families. We connected on so many levels - we were in the same group for Maths English - geeky and took separate sciences. I suppose when we both realised (in silence) that we were spending too much time together and possibly in that young 15-16 age teenage wag falling in love but we never said it - that was it it ended.

Aaah. So similar here. He had a strict, religious family and wasn't allowed to date and we were both well behaved and studious. We shared Science and Maths lessons and we just liked each other iyswim. It was so simple.

@ShowOfHands that's what connects people. So sad when religion and strict families come into it - I remember being mortified when the boy I met on the train came into our family business to ask for me. I was even more shocked when it was my Dad who said your friend is here - Dad trusted me so much he didn't think it was anything but innocent!