Me, DS (15) and DD (12). Everything is so shouty all the time. From the minute I get in from work until they are asleep. Yesterday I spent the evening battling with DD in which she was yelling it’s not fair and slamming around for hours, yelling to herself (or me or her brother). I’m yelling over her to shut up, stop being a drama quiet, stop speaking to her brother like that, just go to sleep! etc. Tonight it’s DS who’s so angry, I confiscated his screens until he’s done his chores, he spent all his time yelling and stropping instead of just getting on with his chores that he’s now missing a fortnightly zoom meeting with his friends which he’s really upset about so is yelling more and I’m yelling back just be quiet and get them done now then you can go on it before it finishes but he didn’t and now he’s yelling that I’m a horrible mother. Why is everyone so angry? Or more importantly how do I break the cycle?