For back ground, my ds has got 2 kids which had both been taken of her, she has contact with her son who is her oldest but has no contact with her daughter. Ds has recently let me know she is pregnant and asked me if I'm happy for her I told her it doesn't matter if I'm happy about it or not as it should only be about her happiness. I am concerned about the fact that I don't think she is going to cope with a baby as she had her other 2 taken of her, she has got mentle health issues as well as been diagnosed with split personality disorder among other things, she is 40 years old not with anyone now. Social services have apperently said they will help her but I know that they will see that she won't be able to cope and will take the baby of her. I can't be happy for her like she wants me to be as I think she been completely irrisponsible and should of kept her legs closed as she is able to be lead along and doesn't know how to stand up for herself. Aibu to think she needs to realize that there is no way she will be able to look take care of a baby.