So our wedding is planned for late September. Most things we have already paid for are moveable so we could postpone and that would be absolutely fine. The problem is that I am in my late 30s and we had planned to try for a baby straight away. So our options are:
A)keep the date knowing it might be cancelled or made much much smaller. DPs mum is in the shielding group and we wouldnt want to go ahead unless safe for her to attend.
B) postpone til next year (apparently April and May and the summer are very very full already for wedding venues due to the postponements and we would likely have to change venue and lose our deposit) and put off TTC
C) go ahead and TTC soon and get married while pregnant if we are successful(would need a new dress)
D)Go ahead and TTC soon and if successful wait til the baby is old enough for us all to enjoy the day and me not be breastfeeding anymore (I would be 40 by then and to be honest dont want to wait that long)
E) some other option I haven't thought of
I do realise this isnt a huge problem in the grand scheme of things and if we come out the other side of this pandemic financially stable and with all the people we love healthy we will consider ourselves very very lucky.