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Is it unusual for 6yo to not be able to express physical or emotional feelings?

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Mallowmarshmallow · 06/05/2020 21:07

My DS(6) has always struggled with being able to identify emotional feelings and he's similar with regards to physical feelings. He seems to have a pretty high pain threshold so can walk over Lego without complaining, for example.

It came up in conversation a while ago that he often feels travel sick on motorways despite never having actually complained about it when we're in the car. Currently he has a big swelling where a shark tooth is intermittently poking through behind a wobbly tooth. It looks sore but he's fairly insistent it isn't...

By nature he's fairly passive, not a complainer but I'm sure at six I was much more able to express my feelings...

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Winter2019 · 06/05/2020 21:20

Don't really know much about 6 year olds but once watched on This morning about a woman who doesn't feel pain. Childbirth wasn't painful for her either she said 😲 so that's the physical aspect. Emotionally, does he cry? Complain about something? My nearly four year old is constantly telling me what makes her angry 🤦‍♀️

Discoballs · 06/05/2020 21:45

Is it that he can't express his feelings or that he's tolerant of pain and discomfort? If it's the later, I'd say that's a good thing. I'm always trying to get my DS to be a bit more resilient.

SunshineDays2019 · 06/05/2020 22:15

He sounds fab! Is he happy/cheerful? Enjoys playing with toys and friends?

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