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If you used to have panic attacks and don't now, what helped?

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IHeartKingThistle · 06/05/2020 14:12

I need help!

I've had attacks like this before but never this many. I've been physically unwell with an ear infection and had antibiotics which has set off my IBS but the panic episodes started a little bit before that. I don't even know if they are panic attacks but I get very hot, my heart rate shoots up, I feel sick and get diarrhoea. I can't really separate what's stomach problems and what's panic but I feel like something really bad is happening at the time. They come out of nowhere - I'm normally a really buoyant person - and I can't put my finger on what's triggering them.

How can I reset myself? Life is stressful at the moment for everybody but I can't keep being ill!

I was very ill about a decade ago and had lots of similar episodes then but haven't had them for years.

Please tell me what worked for you.

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Thelnebriati · 07/05/2020 00:54

Generally;
Cut out nicotine and caffeine.
Find the right dose of the right antidepressant.
Take a magnesium supplement every day.
Learn controlled breathing to relax the vagus nerve, and practice when you are feeling calm - breath in through your nose and out through your mouth, count slowly, and focus on making each breath longer.

Specifically;
There are techniques you can learn to manage each attack. Remind yourself that they only last 20 minutes, and that in 15 minutes you will be through the worst of it. Time the attack.
Go for a walk if you can, it helps burn off the adrenaline. Plan a route that you will use if you have an attack.
Check your posture and body language, check your tongue isn't glued to the roof of your mouth, don't sit hunched up in a defensive posture.

GlummyMcGlummerson · 07/05/2020 01:06

I left my husband. That did the trick

DrinkVeneer · 07/05/2020 01:15

Generally just doing that thing of recognising that it's a panic attack, acknowledging it and letting it pass. Not letting the fear ramp up, noting it, allowing the thoughts and experiences to happen but knowing they don't control you.

It takes practice. But if you do it every time it becomes a habit and gradually, subtly, it changes. It's no longer in control of you. Then it's no longer a big deal. I still get moments of panic, sure, we all do especially now. But I recognize them for what they are - sensations like any other. They can't kill me. They can't even hurt me. And they will go, and I can stay with it and stay in control if I can name and deal.

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Sienna9522 · 07/05/2020 01:55

I’ve suffered panic attacks from a very young age. Out of the blue, in the middle of the night and frequently.

Initially, I had no idea it was panic attacks which turned into a vicious cycle as I would panic about the symptoms of the panic attacks. Symptoms including hot flushes, palpitations, racing heart, feeling suffocated.

I was offered propranolol when I was 16 but chose not to go down that route. Once I knew what they were, I learnt to cope using my mind. Mindfulness worked for decreasing the frequency of attacks.

During an attack, simply acknowledging it is a panic attack and telling myself that no physical harm will come to me really works to slow them down and stop them quicker.

Long, deep breaths are good too. When we’re anxious we tend to take more shallow breaths which causes an imbalance of carbon dioxide and oxygen in the blood that can cause physical sensations as a result of our blood not being oxygenated enough, this then leads leads to a stress response which in turn can cause anxiety/panic attacks. Long, deep breaths allow blood oxygen levels to regulate.

I’m 29 now and still have the odd panic attack. I notice them more if my lifestyle choices aren’t particular great eg. drinking more alcohol than usual or binge eating before due on so definitely agree with PP that lifestyle changes can make a difference. Cut down on alcohol, don’t smoke, eat healthy, reduce caffeine intake etc. All of which are maladaptive coping mechanisms so I realise it’s easier said than done.

This is stuff that has been effective for me anyway, for some, medication may be a better option. I don’t intend to be patronising, just going off my own experience. As part of my job, I administer antidepressants and beta blockers for service users with anxiety and have observed the positive impact that medication can have too.

SpaceCadet4000 · 07/05/2020 02:02

Stopping drinking alcohol, CBT and changing to a cycle commute (basically regular exercise). The combination alleviated my insomnia which was the single biggest trigger of panic attacks for me.

I'd be anxious and swirling thoughts stopped me sleeping. I'd then get convinced that I would never sleep again and that I'd fail hideously at work as a result. It just used to spiral from there.

ClientQ · 07/05/2020 02:06

Short term - beta blockers, the no more panic website, acknowledging it "hi panic, just you again" and carrying on as normal, distraction with stuff like candy crush, a nightlight as they were worse in the dark. Basically saying it's scary yes but it is just panic, I'm not having a heart attack/dying, it's fine and it WILL pass

Long term - citalopram, CBT, counselling, changing jobs

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