Hi Ladies
Looking for advise. I'm temporarily living at my mums with my 8 year old son and husband to be while waiting for sale of our house and buying a new one.
My mum is 62 years old and our relationship is coming to breaking point this is because she does nothing around her house, if it wasnt for the fact that myself and hubby do all the cleaning then the house would be a pigsty.
All she does is sit in her bed all day everyday and only leaves the house to go to work, shopping and if my sister (who I dint get on with anymore) and her kids come round so I keep out the way and yet i'm made to be the bad one.
She washes very little and sometimes she smells so bad that i have to leave the room or open the windows, I to do all the cooking coz shes has stopped doing it and now we have been forced to pay the rent as she got into arrears (this is to keep a roof over hours heads till the new house becomes available). I am now having to keep my son from her as he picks up her bad habits like wanting to stay in bed.
I'm even having therapy because her negative vibes are having a big effect on my and my relationship with my hubby.
I really dont know what to do as she wont get help anymore as she says "whats the point it doesnt help" but she never gave it a chance.
She is stressing my out and I cant stand to be around her.
Any suggestions are welcome :)