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Was this sleep paralysis?

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dazzlinghaze · 24/04/2020 09:08

This morning I 'woke up' because I heard a noise in the hallway. I could hear someone walking about my flat putting things in a bag. I kept trying to reach for my boyfriend but I couldn't move. At the time I thought I was frozen with fear.

I heard the person walking towards my room so I shut my eyes and pretended to be asleep hoping they would take what they wanted and go but they came to the side of my bed. I could feel them standing there and hear them breathing and heard them unzipping their bag. Then they really slowly and gently put a cloth bag type thing over my head and I felt all the sensations of that and had that awful feeling you get when something really terrifies you. I could feel their breath on me as they were leaning over me. Then I managed to swing my arm up to to try and get the bag off and I woke up with a start because I'd actually swung my arm.

Also when I woke up I was in the exact position I'd been in during the dream. My heart was racing and I had that sick feeling in my belly you get when you've had a terrible shock and although my skin was warm I felt freezing and was shaking like a leaf. It took me a few minutes to be able to move my legs. I was shaking so badly I had to get up and put on my dressing gown and thick socks.

I've never had anything like this before but my boyfriend has said that almost every night for the past few weeks he's been woken by me whimpering or panting or crying in my sleep. He says he always gives me a cuddle and asks me what's wrong and I reply that I've had a bad dream but I can never remember any of this in the morning.

Any ideas what could be causing this? I'm quite frightened to go to sleep tonight, it was so awful.

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DanceDanceDance80 · 25/04/2020 17:39

I suffer with this too,I've never met anyone else in RL who has it. It's worse for me if I'm stressed, over tired or laying on my back. It's truly terrifying. My worst night was when it happened everytime I nodded off and must have happened about 10 times in one night. For me generally is feels like I can't breathe or move and feels like theres a huge weight on my stomach.
DON'T WATCH MARA!

HavelockVetinari · 25/04/2020 17:43

Definitely sleep paralysis, I've had it too - I thought it was just very vivid half-dreams till Mumsnet told me what it really was! It's pretty odd and can occasionally be scary, but now I know what it is I shrug it off. Always happens on my back too!

ree348 · 25/04/2020 17:49

@magicstar1 this same thing has happened to me too. It's so awful and unsettling. Do you notice that it's worse when you've had a stressful day? Also thanks for posting as I whenever I would speak to family and friends about this they would think I was mad! Reassuring to know that I'm not the only one who suffers from them. Thank god it hasn't happened in a while!

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dazzlinghaze · 25/04/2020 23:30

@0v9c99f9g9d939d9f9g9h8h Yeah, silly mistake I won't make again! For some reason I was sure I had another slip of them.

Didn't happen last night, thank goodness!
I was worried it would because I'd been thinking about it all day. I really feel for those of you who experience this regularly!

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