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How do I address a reverend in an email?

22 replies

SoapIsYourFriend · 20/04/2020 15:42

Unclear from google search.

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Choice4567 · 20/04/2020 15:43

What are you contacting them about? Normally ‘dear Rev. Surname’

SoapIsYourFriend · 20/04/2020 15:46

A funeral

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SoapIsYourFriend · 20/04/2020 15:53

Sent now - thanks

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TheQueef · 20/04/2020 15:54

If he's yours Father if he's a stranger Rev.

TheQueef · 20/04/2020 15:55

Oops too slooooww.

hanahsaunt · 20/04/2020 15:57

Technically, it's Mr or Mrs (or other title e.g. Dr). Not that they will mind.

Polyethyl · 20/04/2020 15:58

If Anglican... The Revd Joe Bloggs.

Only American vicar are addressed as Rev Bloggs.

picklemewalnuts · 20/04/2020 15:59

I hope you get the response you send Soap. It's all a bit tricky right now, with the arrangements.

DrCoconut · 20/04/2020 16:00

If they are yours and you know them you might well put their first name in the opening eg dear John. I guess for a stranger I'd put dear Rev Smith (or whatever).

Glendaruel · 20/04/2020 16:05

My dad's a rev, but will answer to most things!!

Wearywithteens · 20/04/2020 16:34

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cantkeepawayforever · 20/04/2020 16:42

Traditionally, in the dark ages when I was taught etiquette, you address a vicar as 'Mr Bloggs' (or Father Bloggs, if High Anglican or Catholic) in the salutation at the start of a letter or in person, and the envelope as 'The Revd Billy Bloggs'.

I suspect that this distinction has long since lapsed.

Toddlerteaplease · 20/04/2020 16:52

Father if Catholic, Reverend if Anglican or a Deacon. Right Reverend for a bishop or Most Reverend for an Archbishop.

Toddlerteaplease · 20/04/2020 16:53

Or if you really want to wind an archbishop up, Your Grace. They hate it!

Marmite27 · 20/04/2020 16:53

Dear Rev. Surname

Or Dear Fr. Surname

DappledThings · 20/04/2020 17:00

As with many things it isn't as black and white as some have said. My last two churches, high and not-quite-so-high would be Fr. First name.

My grandfather the vicar would have gone by just first name.

But you aren't going to cause any offence by getting it "wrong"

springydaff · 20/04/2020 17:07

Most vicars these days don't mind being addressed by their first name.

springydaff · 20/04/2020 17:08

Sorry you're having to plan a funeral op Flowers

okiedokieme · 20/04/2020 17:20

Reverend plus first name and surname unless you know them well, some use the term father but not common so stick to reverend

greathat · 20/04/2020 17:52

Sorry for your loss OP

PennyArrowBar · 20/04/2020 18:57

I call her the Reverend Mother, but she did give birth to me so it's probably fair.

Funerals are still being conducted although obviously just at the crem and with restrictions, if the Reverend in question is shielding they should be able to give you details of a minister who isn't.

Dear Revd. Second name is what I'd go with if I was unfamiliar with them.

I'm very sorry for your loss 🙏Flowers

PennyArrowBar · 20/04/2020 18:58

But you aren't going to cause any offence by getting it "wrong"

But this, absolutely this.

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