Second miscarriage

[Lov3my2]

Hi everyone.

Just a bit of background about me

I have 2 sons. From my previous relationship.

Me and my partner have decided we want to try for a baby. He has a daughter too. But we're at a point now in our relationship we'd like 1 of our own. We caught in the month of June 2019 but sadly I ended up with a missed miscarriage which I finally bled out at 9 weeks even though the fetus had stopped at 4 or 5.

I caught again this year, last month in March, so so happy. Went for an early scan at 6 weeks. No heartbeat but reassured to go back at 8. Which was today, I've just left there and been told the same has happened again. Got to wait a week to see if it happens naturally or go back in a week to take a tablet so help things progress.

Just looking for some support really. Not sure if I've posted in the right area. I'm just worried we're not compatible and any dreams of a family together feels crushed right now and 2 miscarriages in a row alarms me.

Thank you.

This exact situation happened to me. DH didn’t have any children but I had three to previous marriage. When we TTC together I had two missed miscarriages in a row, I’d never had a miscarriage before so we started to think something was wrong with him or we were incompatible in some way. We did have a healthy DS after the second miscarriage though so don’t give up just yet . I had a chemical pregnancy last year but am now 25 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby so I think it’s just luck of the draw a lot of the time.

I’m so sorry for your losses. Missed miscarriages are particularly nasty and cruel .

Umnoway.

Thank you for replying. Did it take you long after your losses to have a healthy baby? It took me 7 momths from my 1st loss and worried it'll take a long or longer time again. Just want to be happily pregnant with a healthy baby.x