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Have you ever turned someone down because you thought they were way out of your league?

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RomCon · 13/04/2020 11:09

Or is it only me?!

I have a friend who is absolutely lovely. We get a long very well etc. He is very attractive, good job, well off and a lovely person. His previous girlfriends have all been very attractive - tall, mostly blonde, amazing bodies type. They have all been lovely too.

His last long term relationship didn't work out but ended amicably. He's currently single - has been for the last 9m.

A few days ago during one of our usual video chats he basically said that he would like to pursue a romantic relationship with me. I laughed and told him not to be ridiculous. He looked a bit embarrassed and awkward and I quickly changed the subject.

To be honest, the truth is I am too insecure to even consider it. He's handsome and got loads going for him and I'm short, frumpy, unattractive with geeky glasses and in a minimum wage job! I'm way out of his league. I look shit compared to his previous partners.

Has anyone else been in a similar situation?

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Beerincomechampagnetastes · 14/04/2020 10:40

Grin nice thread op

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