Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

What happened to all the tiny red spiders?

44 replies

BarkandCheese · 08/04/2020 16:59

Okay, having just looked them up they’re not actually spiders and are called clover mites, I thought I’d get that in before someone corrects me.

I’m sitting out on my patio looking at the three foot high retaining wall around my lawn, there are plenty of black ants and other assorted critters busying themselves doing whatever insects do, but not a single tiny red spider. I’ve realised I haven’t consciously noticed one for years, but when I was a child (70s and 80s) they were everywhere, especially on walls in gardens. They were one of those background things of playing out in the garden, like snails and ants and daisies and dandelions, but they seem to have disappeared.

Is the disappearance of the tiny red spiders one of the great mysteries of our time? Or has lockdown cabin fever set in?

OP posts:
Northernsoullover · 08/04/2020 17:00

I haven't seen them for years either. We used to call them bloodsuckers.

CarlottaValdez · 08/04/2020 17:02

Oh yeah! Is forgotten about those!

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 08/04/2020 17:02

Now that you mention it...

CheriLittlebottom · 08/04/2020 17:02

I used to love squashing them onto my thumb and then pretending I had cut myself and was bleeding. I feel a little bit bad about that... promise I haven't grown up to be a serial killer!

Not seen them in years.

Smellbellina · 08/04/2020 17:03

Yes I remember them from childhood too, not seen them in years but thought it was because I wasn’t looking

BarkandCheese · 08/04/2020 17:03

I admit I may have squished one or two. Maybe that’s it, maybe we squished them all.

OP posts:
Feenie · 08/04/2020 17:04

All the black and orange striped caterpillars have disappeared too!

MinesAPintOfTea · 08/04/2020 17:05

I only remember seeing them when laid on the grass next to the garden path. Not something I've done for a couple of decides!

Ginfordinner · 08/04/2020 17:07

Red spider mites. It's a bit early in the year for them.

Connie222 · 08/04/2020 17:07

That’s brought back some memories of when I was little! Our front wall used to team with them.

JellyfishandShells · 08/04/2020 17:07

Ooh, you are right !

Pluckedpencil · 08/04/2020 17:08

I saw them a couple of years ago when we had bats in our eaves. I think they live in the droppings of bats and birds and all come out at once, usually around now, you're right. Not seen any this year though (good!)

BarkandCheese · 08/04/2020 17:11

I just asked DH, he suggested that they’d all been eaten, didn’t say what by though. It’s clearly a mystery to rival what killed the dinosaurs.

OP posts:
bananabob · 08/04/2020 17:12

Yeah I remember loads of them around when I was a kid in the 90s never see any now though 🤷🏻‍♀️

missyB1 · 08/04/2020 17:12

Wow blast from the past!! Yes where did they go?? I need to know now.

FlaviaAlbiaWantsLangClegBack · 08/04/2020 17:13

It's still a bit cold for them isn't it? I usually notice them when it's warm and they're wandering around in the sun.

BarkandCheese · 08/04/2020 17:15

It’s been a toasty 23 degrees where I am today, but no tiny red spiders in sight.

OP posts:
Megan2018 · 08/04/2020 17:17

They are all in my garden....the chooks like eating them!

Theweasleytwins · 08/04/2020 17:18

Found two in my dds room last week

catfeets · 08/04/2020 17:23

I find them all over my patio every year. I think it's a bit early for them to be out and about. I usually see them mainly in the hotter summer months. I hate them but used to like squishing them as a kid.

WhoWouldHaveThoughtThat · 08/04/2020 17:26

... and the Dodos, haven't seen one of those for years.

NanTheWiser · 08/04/2020 17:28

Yes, a bit early for them, they tend to be out and about in late summer.

L0obyLou · 08/04/2020 17:35

A confirmed sighting here yesterday! Was digging up soil in the vegetable patch and spotted one

Iamtryingtobenicehere · 08/04/2020 17:37

They come out when the weather is hot and dry.

NetballHoop · 08/04/2020 17:39

We get them every year, but not normally this early.