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Ivy2134 · 08/04/2020 07:52

Hi everyone.
I split up with my husband..because he was abusive...I just want to know if a man has been abusive with you in your relationship would he be abusive in another relationship. Because he has moved on and living his best life posting it all on fb and she is showing how good he is to her she is astonishingly beautiful hes showering her with gifts and what not...do you think that because he likes her so much he will change for her because hes done for her and doing for her what I didnt get in our marriage. Hes cooking for her taking her all over on holidays there having and living the high life. Where my life with him was completely different. Hebwoupd notndo any of that with me. I just wondered..if he would be abusive to her..cause it seems he is another person. I did message her to warn her but she was having none of it point blank none of it what so ever I just sa9d be careful because you have a little girl. Anyway she had told him and he get on the phone threating my family. ?? Thaysbthe depth of his nastiness. Anyway what's your take on this..could a man really be that much different for another woman with so much beauty. Regardless of the way or what he done to me.

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thaegumathteth · 08/04/2020 07:54

You've warned her that's all you can do. Now step back and ignore him.

Personally I don't think they can change but it doesn't matter - he's out of your life and you're free from his toxicity. Nothing about you or anything you did caused his behaviour, that was all him.

Teacher12345 · 08/04/2020 08:06

Well he is going to be nice to start with isn't he to hook her in. I imagine he was nice to you to start with wasn't he?

HugoSpritz · 08/04/2020 08:11

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