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Anyone had c-section over the last week?

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TemporaryName123 · 07/04/2020 13:14

I’m in on Friday for my section section. While disappointed OH can’t be on ward for bonding, spending time and helping me with baby/self care, I totally understand the logic for this. So I’m looking for any positive hints, tips and experiences that other post-section ladies have had since the ban of OH on wards. Did you find the staff were more amenable to you trying to get up and out more quickly? Did you feel a sense of panic or calm on the wards? Did you have enough reactive help to bring passed the baby/your belongings etc? Thank you 😊

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ThePug · 07/04/2020 13:25

Not answering your questions but a tip I saw on here before I had my second csec (planned rather than the first emcs) was to take a scarf/pashmina and tie it to the foot end of the bed then when you need to sit up you can use it to help pull yourself up - this was an absolute game changer for me and helped me be far more mobile much sooner second time as the sitting up bit was by far the hardest part of moving! Good luck

Blondebear123 · 07/04/2020 13:29

Take plenty of snacks and a big bottle of water! Put them close to you :)

userabcname · 07/04/2020 13:44

@ThePug that is such a good tip!!! I was rolling around the bed like a beached whale after mine! Good luck OP, mine was 5 months ago but it was really positive and I was home in 24 hours, hope it all goes well for you without your husband there.

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TemporaryName123 · 07/04/2020 14:27

Oh my god that’s such a good tip!! Thanks @ThePug! Snacks and water packed - have one small bag of snacks in my suitcase and one toiletries bag so I’m going to ask for them to be put on my bedside table then just ask for clothes as and when. I don’t get to go to my ‘bed’ first, only taken down after surgery so don’t have the option to set up myself but hopefully they’ll be happy to help (and will also tie the scarf on for me!!). Thank you all so much!

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Pegase · 07/04/2020 14:30

Following for tips- not looking forward to having no partner after the birth as DH's help was essential last time!

Featurewall · 07/04/2020 14:37

I had mine a year ago but was discharged & home after 24 hours. The scarf is a good idea. And do NOT let them fob you off with just paracetamol and ibuprofen. This happened to me after my first CS. This time around I basically refused to leave without proper painkillers and the first few weeks were so much easier. Best of luck op , my elcs was a very calm experience .

ShirleyPhallus · 07/04/2020 14:37

Yes, I have.

It was a little daunting saying bye to DH when I was moved to the recovery ward, he was allowed on to get me sorted by then had to go home (and felt like a spare part at home, a bit useless!).

It was challenging but the midwives were incredible. I felt rather useless myself having to call the buzzer every time to get the baby out of her crib as it was positioned the wrong way for me to an able to lift. Midwives came around as routine every few hours to check my pads / catheter and to check on the baby and give me painkillers.

There were two other women on the ward and one had phone calls in to the evening when I wanted to sleep which was annoying as I didn’t feel I could wear earplugs as I wanted to hear the baby. Dinner was ok so pack plenty of snacks and a portable phone charger is an absolute must!

Make sure you organise all your bags lightly but thoroughly so you can reach everything. I definitely took too much stuff with me and then couldn’t reach the essentials. If you had some sort of grabbing device I’d take that!

The midwives were all really sympathetic and very helpful so take the help where it’s offered. I asked them to change the baby’s nappy and pass her to me, and also to watch her when I used the toilet etc. They were all very happy to.

The real positive about this situation is I had a whole day to bond with the baby and that time was just magic. DH got about 10 hours sleep which he really needed after being up for the long labour and meant he got home, sorted the house then was like a kid at Xmas picking us up.

Good luck, whatever happens it will be one of the best days of your life!

ShirleyPhallus · 07/04/2020 14:40

And do NOT let them fob you off with just paracetamol and ibuprofen. This happened to me after my first CS.

Think it’s key to ask for something stronger if you need it, ibuprofen and paracetamol have been absolutely fine for me

TemporaryName123 · 07/04/2020 14:52

Fab tips! I actually do have a grabber stick I’m bringing with me so that if they are ok to leave my suitcase open on one side of the bed for me, I can grab clothing/nappies etc as a need (I sound like and old lady but have have had a hip and knee replacement in the last 10 years so I already have it to hand and have no shame 😂) I’ve deffo thinned out my suitcase as much as possible for ease. Portable charger and long cable charger packed 😊

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Featurewall · 11/04/2020 10:45

Temporary hope you & baby are doing well BrewFlowersCake

SagaBauer · 11/04/2020 10:53

The hospital I was in had bed ladders, which are probably a bit sturdier than a scarf tied to the bed, but they might not be using them due to infection control atm? They were fabric to presumably washable!

I put all baby bits in labelled zip lock bags, so they were easy to pull out. All short sleeve vests in one, sleep suits in another. Helped DP find stuff easily too. Agree with not overpacking! And buzz early for pain relief as it can get busy/take a while for midwives to bring it.

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