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Pregnant 1 year after missed Miscarriage. Any advice?

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Jfetzer1 · 05/04/2020 18:50

Hello, my name is Jillian, and I am 28 years old. My husband and I had found that I had a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks, exactly a year ago. We just found out that we are expecting once again, and roughly am still only at 6-7 weeks. My appointment is t until the 28th of this month and I’m going mad. I am very worried that I will miscarry again. Had any of you experience a MC or MMC like myself, and have a healthy pregnancy after. I can’t sleep or function. I am completely depressed and terrified.

Thank you

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starlightmagic · 05/04/2020 18:59

I had the same as you, I found out at the end of July 2018 that I’d miscarried (should have been 12 weeks but baby stopped at 10). It took a full year til July 2019 to conceive again, i now have a 3 week old baby girl asleep in my arms ☺️ I had some bleeding from 7 weeks to 13 weeks and I was convinced I was miscarrying again, it was a really worrying time but all was fine x

babychange12 · 05/04/2020 19:14

I had a miscarriage last March and am holding a 4 week old baby now in my arms Smile

Crikeycrikeyblimeymoses · 05/04/2020 19:25

I was in this situation. I forced myself to assume that everything would be ok because statistically that is the most likely outcome. I was determined to enjoy being pregnant that time! All was well with my second and then my third pregnancy as well. Good luck!

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triedandtestedteacher · 05/04/2020 19:32

Currently in this situation myself. There's a thread of ladies in the same boat

Jfetzer1 · 06/04/2020 20:15

Thank you all so much! All your stories give me hope!

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FireflyGirl · 06/04/2020 21:34

Congratulations @Jfetzer1.

If you heard over to the 'pregnancy' section, there are a few threads on being pregnant after miscarriage. The ladies there will all understand how you are feeling, be able to offer you advice if you need it, and are all very friendly.

usethedata · 06/04/2020 21:47

I had a MMC then next pregnancy was totally fine. My son is now 9. Only advice is to do your best to relax as you can drive yourself crazy with worry. Very hard in practice! For me it helped to remember that first trimester miscarriages are fairly common and don't necessarily mean there is anything wrong with my (your) ability to carry a baby... and they often mean something was not quite right with that baby. Not a medical expert but it was a thought process that helped me.

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