Probably just need to vent but any advice would be greatly appreciated my DH works for his family firm 3rd generation so never actually had a proper job as I call it (being able to leave others in charge for a round of golf or a lunch which lasts all afternoon cos others are there) My FIL who is nearly 70 (in August) does not think the stay at home applies to him daily battles over phone about how lottery tickets are not essential to add to this he thinks our business should be open (have since removed everything that could be used to run it to my house) his youngest son thinks its ok to go anywhere whilst my H (he lost the D status jury still out) thinks it's ok that he sits in his man cave gaming all night and if its usually work not play would be on a nightshift
Had a chat yesterday about this and today has been flying round the house and garden doing stuff he never does but getting it all wrong using wrong bins for stuff etc all I wanted him to realise was that I also worked before I met him 20 years ago gave up my career then and recently gave it up again to help his old fashioned business when vat etc had to be done online after being given a career break over mum and dad alzheimers and dementia by my employer and losing dad and mum in a care home now wish I has stayed in banking