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I Wish I Had Gone to the Tip

49 replies

Meckity1 · 29/03/2020 11:23

Over the last few years I've been at a really low point. I suppose you could say I've had pretty much a breakdown. The sort of thing that means that making a cup of tea is sometimes too complicated. Couldn't get to the doctors as couldn't get out the house. That sort of thing. And the house filled up and became dirty.

DH is now working from home and needs a clearer, cleaner surroundings for his mental health. I need to get rid of cardboard boxes, outgrown clothes, unused blankets, old papers (shredded) etc etc. And we always generate a lot of rubbish for some reason. DH always used to take a couple of bags to the tip every Sunday. Then there is the backlog of jars and bottles for the bottle bank and old paint tins. And don't get me started on the state of the garden and how I finally can get into it now that the neighbours who kept threatening me have moved out.

The tip is closed.

The garden is filling up with black bags and now I look like a food hoarder with stuff going out of date. I've got to get rid of stuff from the back of cupboards that is a year out of date, but haven't been hoarding. My stash of hand soap comes from last summer when there was a really good deal and I bought a load. My food waste over the last few weeks has been some celery and two carrots.

When the tip finally opens I'm going to be making shuttle runs for days.

Please let it be open after this three week period.

OP posts:
TreacherousPissFlap · 29/03/2020 15:49

We've been advised not to squish the rubbish to much as it then gets stuck in the bin and you'll end up with a half full bin returned to you Confused

Baboutheocelot · 29/03/2020 15:53

Check your councils website for advice about what you can put out. We got some clear plastic bin bags to put excess recycling in when our bin is full, the bin men take those as well where we live. Also try supermarket car parks as they often have clothes bins and other recycling bins. I think I’ve even seen one that takes old books.

TowandaForever · 29/03/2020 15:57

Can we put old paint tins in our bins?

Have checked my councils websites and it doesn’t say much about what you can put in?

slartibarti · 29/03/2020 16:00

Does your recycling not get collected? The cardboard boxes would go out with recycling for example.

We were told last week that all recycling collections, apart from food waste would be stopped. Got the information on recycling collection day, some of us took it back in but a lot of people just left it.
There's paper, plastic and cardboard blowing everywhere today.

playthestation · 29/03/2020 16:10

So just order a skip, fill it up and they’ll take it away again. Hassle free and fast.

It isn't free though. Standard skip hire here is around £175 for a week. Hardly hassle free.

TwigTheWonderKid · 29/03/2020 16:12

Can you not burn the carboard? Clearly not very environmentally friendly but at least it would be an easy win in this situation.

Pitaramus · 29/03/2020 16:20

I find it odd that you can’t manage with normal waste removal. I have one bin every two weeks and there are 5 of us living here (one in nappies).

We compost food waste and recycle anything recyclable. We have two bins for that.

In the short term however, it sounds like you do need to desperately get rid of stuff. With the top closed could you consider a bonfire for all the cardboard and anything else that you could burn? It’s probably quite an unpopular one, but if you lit it after 8pm it wouldn’t be as antisocial as having your garden overflowing with waste!

FamBae · 29/03/2020 16:26

How about a garden bonfire? don't go too large and wait until dusk when everyone has bought their washing in.

MowzersAsleep · 29/03/2020 16:34

You sound like to are open to change, and you are doing it!

Well done, take these few months to visualise how you want to be living by July, how you would like the house to look, and go from there.

Do you have a spare room, put everything that can go to the tip/charity shop in there.

In July that spare room, will be empty hopefully.

Keep going OP Flowers

MowzersAsleep · 29/03/2020 16:38

Some of the stuff that has fallen behind the stash really, really, really needs to go

Sometimes your mental health is worth saving more than a few quid OP.
Can you imagine having bare cupboards and only shopping weekly, now you can drive.
That would probably make things seems less cluttered.

Meckity1 · 29/03/2020 17:23

Thanks for all the ideas.

Bonfires aren't legal here, as I checked, and I have neighbours that can be difficult. I'm just putting up that objection because a bonfire that is under control is a logical step, but it may not be safe for everyone.

@MowzersAsleep The thought of bare cupboards makes me near to hysterical. The trick is to make sure I don't waste anything, and, to be fair to myself, 99% of stuff I've bought during the last few months has been used. I'm a work in progress. Unfortunately, I'm at the stage of the progess that means that I have a lot of black bin bags. I need to look after DH's health at this time.

Really appreciate the ideas. Really hoping the tip opens up soon, though.

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AintNobodyHereButUsKittens · 29/03/2020 17:30

Brown cardboard is compostable in moderate quantities if that helps at all. It’s pretty low value for recycling so compost is an acceptable alternative.

mencken · 29/03/2020 18:21

I'm afraid the tip won't be open any time soon so plan B it is.

cat litter - depending on what you are using it can be compostable on the garden. Or can the cat learn to go outside?

one of the many reasons not to use Amazon is the tremendous amount of packaging waste, but that is a 'normal times' thing and is not necessarily an option at the moment. If you are in the UK then no need for bottled drinks, add some squash if you struggle with the tap water taste as that comes concentrated so fewer bottles. And yes, no fizzy pop which is shit at the best of times!

Chiyo666 · 29/03/2020 18:25

People have limits on what they can throw away?
My bin men took 15 black bags, 3 old mops and an old bin last week Grin

MissSmiley · 29/03/2020 19:52

Our council have cancelled our recycling bin collection, we're just having the waste bin collected from now on and have to put any recycling in there too

Meckity1 · 29/03/2020 20:09

These are really good ideas. I'm going to go away and have a think.

mencken - we don't have a cat at the moment. Normally I have a steady stream of teenagers in and out, so snack wrappers build up as well as the problems caused by my issues.

@Chiyo666 They are pretty strict. I may ring the council tomorrow and see what they suggest.

The ideas of composting etc are sort of complicated as I have a very small garden but I've found a link via the council so that may be a way to go.

Thanks for the suggestions.

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mencken · 30/03/2020 13:48

good luck - let us know how you get on.

I think there's also something about squashing snack wrappers into plastic bottles to reduce waste volume. Not something many of us would normally have the energy to do, but desperate times...

Meckity1 · 01/04/2020 09:18

@mencken It's black bin day today. The food waste hadn't filled our black bin (peelings, plate scrapings, that sort of thing) so I topped it up with other bags.

Next door but one is empty. I pulled out their bin but the landlord had mostly filled it. I put a couple of our bin bags on top and took it to the collection point (we have to take our bins to a particular spot on bin day). Hopefully if it is empty then I can fill it on next bin day, and if landlord fills it again then I may still be able to sneak a few bags in.

I still have quite a few bin bags in the garden (all double bagged) and a house full of rubbish. I'm worrying about a skip because there are issues about where on the street where I can put it (weird sort of legal stuff happening which I don't think would be believed, but only affects us indirectly). But I may be able to contact a waste company. I think I will start emptying the house and see how it goes.

Checked on clothes bank in supermarket car park when I went for weekly shop. All very full. I'm trying to identify places to put stuff that make things easier on DH.

Plastic bottles and tins etc are being kept separate in clear bags. Currently stashed in kitchen corner. I'm not getting so many deliveries at the moment, so less card. Hoping I'll be able to fill up the green bin okay.

Following council's waste dept on YouTube, which is sort of reassuring and when I next go to the supermarket next week (or when necessary) I can drop off glass then.

Garden stuff is still a problem. It's too cold to do much anyway, so I'm postponing worrying about what's under the bin bags.

Thanks to everyone for their advice.

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x2boys · 01/04/2020 09:55

We are drowning in rubbish we have two weekly bin collections 1_week they collect the general rubbish and therefore they collec the recycling , m y council introduced "slim bins"which were less than half the size of the old bins a couple years ago for general rubbish, God knows why as there was already loads of fly tipping ,my bin frequently goes missing as th e refuse collectors just dump the bins all over the estate when they have emptied them and now the tip is closed 😭

Selfsettling3 · 01/04/2020 10:01

Are you buying too much?

BruceAndNosh · 01/04/2020 10:16

Keep checking your council's website. Ours cancelled recycling last week but are collecting it this week so they are changing what they can do on a weekly basis.
Obviously some councils will have just done a blanket decision for foreseeable future

Meckity1 · 01/04/2020 11:07

@Selfsettling3 I am dealing with my hording for the sake of my husbands's mental health

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Selfsettling3 · 01/04/2020 19:28

My MIL has similar issues. I can see from her journey that she really needs to deal with the route problem but that’s too painful for and not something she wants to do. For now she has two areas to focus on reducing what comes into the house as well as reducing what is already in the house.

Good luck.

StripeyDeckchair · 01/04/2020 20:18

My council have already notified us that recycling collections are suspended for the foreseeable future and we should just put all rubbish in the bin.
It means that we have less room than usual in the bin.

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