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You know how authors often choose character names from cemeteries?

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CormoranStrike · 28/03/2020 16:02

JK Rowling is just one famous example, there’s a cemetery at Greyfriars in Edinburgh where you can ‘meet’ many of her Harry Potter characters.

Anyway, on my walk today I went to a cemetery near me with parts dating back 200 years.

Many if the names are similar to ones you would see today, but I picked out a few I loved, most almost or well over a century on from their deaths. I do like to read these names and in some way know these people are not forgotten.

My favourites today include:

Myrtle Gwendoline
Betsy Brown
Christian Lewison
Hume Easton
John Kindred
Nancy Pagan
Dotsy Wyness

Interestingly, Christian - not Christina - was a popular name for women a century or so back

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poppadopolis · 28/03/2020 16:07

When we lived in London there was a very small cemetery local to us.

One of the names there is Tryphena Giblett.

CormoranStrike · 28/03/2020 16:11

That is a marvellous name

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steppemum · 28/03/2020 16:13

Oh fabulous names.

I think Myrtle Gwendoline is my favourite.

Now I think about it, I am surprised that Myrtle didn't make a comeback with all the nature names around. Maybe the Harry Potter effect is too strong

GatoFofo · 28/03/2020 16:13

I love that you’ve started this thread, fantastic idea! Star

CormoranStrike · 28/03/2020 16:15

I find old graveyards such peaceful places . And I know it sounds weird but I feel reading the names in some way honours them.

In some ways that’s the reason for a headstone. So their names and stories are not forgotten.

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PenguinsOnParade · 28/03/2020 16:17

My favourites are when there's a woman who's obviously been named after a male family member and they've added -ina to the end.

I've seen Howardina, Jamesina, Douglasina and Haroldina amongst others.

steppemum · 28/03/2020 16:20

Tryphena.

never ever heard of that. Wonder where it came from and why her parents chose it?

vampirethriller · 28/03/2020 16:23

Near me there's:
Keturah Sullivan
Willis Walker
Jabez Cooper
Septimus Frost

Some first names (can't remember surnames):
Easter
Angelia
Pricila
Eulalia
Thirzah
Zillah

Urban
Norton
Hosea

We walk through most days, it's a beautiful place.

steppemum · 28/03/2020 16:25

well, I googled it, and it means delicate or dainty, so I am picturign a tiny scrap of a baby.

It is mentioned in the Bible, Paul meets a woman caled tryphena in Rome. Its funny, because I knwo my Bible quite well, and I have never noticed it. So I looked it up. There is a whole long list of people, Paul sends greetings to.
Greet Tryphena and Tryphosa, those women who work hard in the Lord.

Now I am curious and them both, why such similar names? Were they sisters?
Tryphosa means thrice shining apparently.

It all makes me so curious, untold stories of thousands of lives.

CormoranStrike · 28/03/2020 16:26

Septimus Frost is amazing.

I know a Thirza.

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steppemum · 28/03/2020 16:28

Pricila
Thirzah
Zillah

these are Biblical names. I know a couple of Tirzahs (with and without an h)
and I know lady called Zillah, very nice, but very down to earth sensible ordinary sort of lady and she is now 80 and really her name has been a bit of a burden all her life. I think she would much rather have been Joan.

vampirethriller · 28/03/2020 16:29

There's a Betsy Pepper and a May Day too, I love those.

SoupDragon · 28/03/2020 16:30

There is a Fanny Thrower near me.

steppemum · 28/03/2020 16:35

Do you think Septimus was a seventh child?

I always thoguht it would be cool to have 8 and call the 8th Octavia.

goodthanks · 28/03/2020 16:36

@PenguinsOnParade I met an Angusina once Smile

vampirethriller · 28/03/2020 16:38

My sister's local shop is run by a woman called Donaldina!

poppadopolis · 28/03/2020 16:59

@steppemum

Thanks for researching that - interesting.

It is a very old cemetery and not currently in use (apart from the drug dealers!)

I seem to remember that she had died quite young - maybe in her teens. I might ask my brother to have a look as he still lives near there.

WeKnowFrogsGoShaLaLaLaLa · 28/03/2020 17:00

There's an Ada Caladine in our local cemetery. Always imagine her as pure Hollywood glamour. 😍

UncleMatthewsEntrenchingTool · 28/03/2020 17:01

One from a twig in my family tree: Zebulon Titley

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 28/03/2020 17:02

My great grandmother was a Zillah, she was a fabulous and formidable lady! If I'd had daughters instead of sons, I'd certainly have been tempted to use it in her honour!

WarmSausageTea · 28/03/2020 17:08

Not from a gravestone, but there’s a road near here called Fanny Hands Lane.

I assumed Fanny Hands was a local woman of some importance, so I googled Fanny Hands. Not the best idea, as it turns out.

steppemum · 28/03/2020 17:23

so I googled Fanny Hands. Not the best idea, as it turns out.

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AlpineSnow · 28/03/2020 17:43

When Brian Blessed did "Who do you think you are?" he had an ancestor called Jabez.
I like this grave inscription

You know how authors often choose character names from cemeteries?
CormoranStrike · 28/03/2020 17:47

One of the headstones today was for a family who lost all of their children as toddlers.

It read “Time is so short, eternity so long”

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BarkandCheese · 28/03/2020 17:52

I sometimes walk my dog in a Victorian cemetery. There’s a Fanny Wellbeloved which always makes me snigger. There’s also a Cinderella, which I imagine raised a few eyebrows back then.