Right. I’m determined to inject some ‘cup half full’ into this nightmare.
My psychologist mate says it’s important to schedule your days at home, especially with kids. It has the benefits of distracting everyone, not fixating everyone on screens, and possibly coming out of all this calm and even with some new skills.
To start the ball rolling, I’ve thought of a few things (seperate to working online and household jobs). Please add any you can think of, or variations for when we run out of ideas!
-digging out all the old sports equipment from the back of cupboards, sheds, etc. Even the ‘age inappropriate’ stuff from baby or teen years. Bet we can think of something new to do with them. Fresh air at least 40mins a day, rain or shine.
-temporary tattoos/face paints/makeup. We’ll decorate ourselves and invite our kids friends to do the same and parade our efforts on the Zoom app.Also raid the wardrobes for ‘costumes’, put on plays or skits. Video them and send around for a laugh.
-sacrifice any old magazines, books and catalogues around to cut up and make into collages with glue. Everyone will be given a tiny identical pic to hide in theirs for some extra ‘Where’s Wally’ fun. Different theme every week. Maybe we can make jigsaw puzzles with pages too.
-invite my adult friends to teach sessions (via facetime) on their area of expertise. To other adults, and to the kids. I’m offering watercolour painting, using common household stuff & Italian language. Simple stuff, like teaching a tongue twister to practise.
-researching a foodstuff each day. To hopefully make our limited ingredients a little more interesting.
-sending ‘a joke a day’ around our family whatsapp group, with voting for the best one. Maybe also a ‘trivia’ or ‘life hacks’ one too, if that gets stale.
-find family friendly games we can all play online from different locations. I’m gonna need some help with this, I don’t know any!
Obviously this is mainly stuff for when you have kids 3-13, although some adult childfree friends have begged to be involved. Don’t know how we’ll go with it all when we’re actually sick, but a good routine might just work then too. I haven’t figured out my daily schedule, but that’s next.
How are you going to set up your days?